Dumped

last SG · 2004-04-16T17:19:43+00:00

I suggest you think over what U did. She dumped you. The truth hurts but its the truth.

drowssap_123 SG

I just got dumped by phone. She din even want to see me face to face to tell me saying that I'll get beck to u in 2 weeks' time. I waited 1 wk and dragged her out of her house. She said she din like me anymore and there was no reason for it, e so-called 2 wks was actually for me to forget her. She din even smile or anything, juz said I made up my mind and will not change it. 2 yrs man..... I feel so cheated. Why r some girls so cold and heartless? Crying or Very sad

IamAngeline SG

If she's meant to be yours she will be.

Dun use time to measure a r/s.

Dun force her to love you when she've said she dun anymore.

No one's heartless. She's not cheating U. U r then the one cheating urself

Well, take care Neutral

Paperboat SG

think her intention is very clear. persisting on the r/s will only add more agony to yourself.

to dump and be dumped is part of many r/s most pple will go thru. love is not about signing a contract to bind two person together. to put it simply, it's more about wanting the other party to be happy without expecting anything in return. if that is her decision, respect it. you will only grow up from this to be a more matured man.

cheer up....you will find someone who deserves you more.

Yunhaier SG

She already mentioned she didn't like you anymore straight into your face. There is no need for advice - only a shoulder to cry.

P.S: Of course, if you are interested, you could post your entire relationship with her here to see what went wrong.

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

This is just but one of the ways to break up? Be grateful... You've yet to see worse...?

M©+square SG

How worse? Confused
I tot mine is quite solid liao Neutral

foga SG

ur situasi sound the same as mine. we had a fight, she said she needed to time to think over.... i waited. she never call. i went over to her place, actually the the void deck of her flat. met her, she told mi her decision. she's not heartless, she's jus tired. so the heartless one is mi cause she took my heart away.

weidev SG

Crying or Very sad

TLK SG

Yeah. Get over it. Maybe she broke up with you through phone because she couldn't tell you face-to-face. Sometimes it's really hard to do so.

Cheers. Sad

^sylvia^ SG

jia you bahz.. get over it soon.. there are so many nice ladies around. don’t have to clinch on one

foga SG

some element of truth there but, if you had the best, the rest will jus be a compromise

shaunlaw SG

U fragged her out of the house and u expect her to give u an answer with that attitude?

She has aready made clear her intentions that she has no feelings for u anymore. Isnt tt a reason? What is 2 years when there are ppl out there who has been thru longer and then and up the same as u?

^sylvia^ SG

fully agree. but don't apply to his girl, she have no intention to be with him anymore. Sad

<sk> SG

But thats a real awful way of breaking up though... over the phone? Neutral

^sylvia^ SG

its very hard to face someone and suggest a break up though Sad

IamAngeline SG

It's hard but definitely the appropriate to sort things out face to face Rolling Eyes

^sylvia^ SG

Some ladies' boyfriend beri de violence de lehx
maybe some scare their bfs cannot tahan then *piak* them lor

but some chose to avoid all problems.. dunoe what they thinking oso hor rite

IamAngeline SG

If the bf abuses her, that's another case.

I dun think every bf will piak the gf de lah.. unless she betray him or anymore serious, I nothing to say, but still should not resort to violence.

avoid only worsen the whole thing, y not just be frank and settle it for once and for all? Rolling Eyes

^sylvia^ SG

i resorted many ways of breaking up with my ex
muaahahaa..
avoid did occur sometimes cos you never know what your bf will react lor.. i was being slapped in the face when i face-to-face suggest him a breakup, before that i suggested on the phone, and he suggest we should sort things out face-to-face..

so.. hmmz.. oso bo bian.. cannot blame on girls choosing to avoid lor..

PS: the guy was very very sweet and caring, couldn't blive he did this to me. FK him Twisted Evil

IamAngeline SG

Oh well the guy deserve to die..... haha
I'm not sure but I always like to settle things straight in the face especially for break ups. make sure it's done once and for all. I hate to be draggy.

actually the most scariest for my case, my ex ever threatened to commit suicide, and the whole family came knocking my door. Rolling Eyes

Well, what else can I do?