fogetting someone is realli hard,,,,,,

Kel^83 SG

r/s is full of ???

u can give everything for the r/s but some how still have to end in break up and the other party can just take it so easily as though nothing ever happened and carry on with his/her life.

you guys might say tat 1 should carry on with his/her life be it wat happens and don look back but i doubt there's anyone who can get over a r/s easily unless he/she no longer have feelings for the r/s.

correct me if i'm wrong.

huy SG

well.. actually i also have the same problem as u are facing right now. i try my best to forget this particular guy but i just cun do it . it been months since he left me but til now i still keep thinking about him. even though i keep thinking of him now and then, but i nv let this affect my sch work or become moody in front of my fres. i still remain as i am. only when i feel alone, i will then think about him. i think forgettting someone is very hard. but i belive that time heals. maybe as the time goes by, u will slowly forget about the person. take it slowly..

Hocklez SG

Do something, go out of the country for a while by taking leaves and not to see the person for a few long weeks. I am like u last time Wink Time will heal all wounds.

piinkmiink SG

i think u should continue to see her..other if you avoid her..it’s not easy to be frens with her again..be frens..then slowly you will forget her.

Kel^83 SG

i also abt the same. just don let urself be alone and slowly u will forget the person. go have fun with frens etc.

eyewitness SG

i finally see the whole picture,.....she has changed already....i did try to give her chance to change but no,she will not change back till her old self anymore,.....not now....onli till something realli big happened or wat,,,but by than,it will be over.... Embarassed Crying or Very sad

Kel^83 SG

now tat u seen the whole picture, don think so much abt it (hard at first)

go enjoy urself wif ur frens and mix arnd knowing more frens or do things u nv had a chance to do when ur wif her etc.

its hard 4 a person to change unless he/she is determined to do it

sometimes its better to let go rather then to hang on to it
might be better for both parties

if u want ur can remain as frens and maybe contact once in a while

aspect SG

Reading all the posts.... reminds very much of myself... Had a 4yr+ relationship wif my ex.... seems like we could get married sometime in future... but suddenly changed ever since she start working.... found a new guy.. moved on.. and left me behind... couldnt take it initially.. on the verge of depression... its almost been a yr now.. brain tell me to gif up... heart tell me to hold on.... its been hard.. everytime i see get to see her incidentally outside or on photos.. i find dat she gets prettier each time....

but guess wat... gotten myself a new gf now.... a real wonderful ger too... though i still tink of my ex very often.. n i do miss her.. but i must say.. at least she left me wonderful memories and i can smile at the thoughts of them... and i dun tink of the bad ones so dat i'll be happier then being sad or angry..... haf to move on wif life.... dats life...

shifeng SG

its easy to fall in love.. but its never easy to forget of love...
haiz... cheer up dude...

me also very fan of this kind of things at times... fate is cruel...

Prec|ous SG

Ya...since it all over... no point dwelling on it.. NO matter wat u do wun change her/his mind...so wat for pinning on someone of no return???Believe in urself... saying that u can do beta...even after the previous r/s. Be more confident. U will succeed. Razz

Kel^83 SG

abt the same as u

discuss abt marrige wif ex but now everything's over.

even though i'm the 1 who suggested the break up but its very hard to put it down. so mani flashbacks but just gotta move on.

had no choice cos its getting no whr and its better for both parties.

now she's wif another guy and seems happy. onli can wish her all the best in her current r/s.

aspect SG

use to tink life was perfect.. but learnt ever since the previous breakup... dat life is'nt always so beautiful.... n realised that many many ppl are in the same state as me... guess god though it was time for me to learn someting hard in life....

but its good... downfall will teach one to climb up... mature.. and understand more...

ahtong76 SG

Buddy,

Just gotta move on , though your heart finds it hard to do so. Just get on with life, be busy with other stuff, hobbies, meeting other friends, it helps. The worst thing i did when i encountered your experience is not to share and stay in the room. Depression sets in very fast and you loose focus in life. Damn dangerous boy! Get up and move on my man. Now i am married happily and can look back and laugh at myself, at least i've been through a failure and can understand a little more of your situation.

Cheers!

eyewitness SG

hi ple...saw my encouraging msg post from ur....thanks man....
the problem is that we had this aggrement we made when we 1st broke up...to give each other space and time to change..then we patch up again..i knw this is like funny,,,ok but then i jus let it be..then last sun she sms me telling me her family miss me etc,,,she ask me if i remember the aggrement?i say yes..then i tell her we need to talk...she say i always like this..then we quarrel again..she tole me she give up then i say hope we can be friends but she did not wan...then i ask her abt her clubbing each week end....if she knew guys etc...she say no but i find it realli hard to believe...and i heard fr a friend she has been go clubbing without me knowing when we were togther...nowadays she nv sms me or anything.even online i saw her she also no msg me....i dun know wat she plan to do...i know i am silly to stil wait...i jus hope and pray that she will change and tell me something that i long to hear,,,,,, Crying or Very sad i ask my gal friend and she say she is treating me as a spare tyre.... Embarassed haiz....all i ask for is a simple life with the gal i love,,,,,,,love realli hurts and left a scar on it.....

Kel^83 SG

i would suggest that u move on and forget abt her.
don waste ur time waiting
use the quality time on something else.

Smile

ah Lan SG

u are better than me..
i have been with mine for 1yr8mths.. when she got to the working world, things took a drastic turn, told me her perceptive change, all that crap.. broke up at last.. Neutral

darrendon SG

In my opnion, if you really want to forget about her, you got to just concentrate on other stuffs. Find something that you like and concentrate on it. It will helps to forget her a bit. Or indulge yourself into work may helps also.

I will also suggest that if she really makes you feel very hurt up to a level in which you cannot even handle and remain conscious, you can try not to see her or contact her. I know it's extremely hard... I have been through it also. By not contacting her, you will gradually change your lifestyle and you will meet new friends and then she will just remain as a small portion in your memory. It may took years...

If you still remain in contact with her, it is almost impossible for you to forget her and the feelings will always be there everytime you saw her. The feelings may grow stronger and stronger if you truely loves her.

jolin80 SG

learn the mistake and move on
dun dwell over it
let time heal yr wound
everyone of us will go thru this in our life
take it easy treat it as a lesson

M©+square SG

I'm perplex whether to guide you the right way, or the wrong way. Neutral

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