Originally posted by jonalim:
sian...now its like, i scare later i go confess my
feelings, then she dun wanna come out with me anymore
liao
I can give you my suggestion. Hope it will boost your decision.
Remember, whatever you decide on to do, do it. Nothing will happen
if you never try. You are doom to failure if you never try. Be it
success of failure, accept what you have decided.
For everything that we do, there will be something lost and
something gain.
If you decided to tell her :
Success = You both will have a loving relationship and you cherish
her and give in everything you have.
Failure = You both will feel awkard at being friends. She might
avoid you for some time. But in time to come, there are so many
friends and he/she might not be your best/close friend after all in
the future.
If you decided not to tell her :
Success = You both will still be friends and nobody knows what will
happen in the future. Maybe you both will still be together? Nobody
knows.
Failure = You will break your heart when you see her with another
guy. Even worse, she might say that she like you in the past but
why you never tell her?
It's not easy to choose a path to walk on reaching a junction. But
you will have to choose your path. Walk on and hope you will have
no regrets on whatever you choose. Nobody knows the future as i
said. Cherish the present, learn from the past. Nobody knows what
you are thinking or feeling if you don't tell them. I'm very
nagging i know.
If you are scare(most people face this problem not only you), drop
some hints to her about your feelings. Tell her you will miss her
alot when she go over to study. Tell her you will go and visit her
when you have the time. You will never forget her, etc... It's up
to you whatever you want to say.
It's all my point of view, the decision is still yours. Jia you...
I wish you and her will live a happily ever life together
forever.
There are many things in life that we cherish. But if we cherish
and want something, we will inturn lose some other things that we
cherish. The most important thing is your heart.
