We can never know what the future will bring about. Maybe u will
meet a girl u would loved tomorrow, or strike lottery this week.
Such events are beyond our control (unless u tell me that u can
manipulate the 4D no. 
), let fate decide. How are we supposed to
get involved in a relationship with a girl whom we doesn't even
know exist? So again, let fate decide....
Then again, for situations u know of and has a certain amount of
control in, like u already know the girl, then take fate in your
hands and make the best of the opportunity. Fate can only gives us
the chance, it's up to us to grasp the chance when it comes
along.
