Actually we are under that kind of influence
periodically in our lives. Remember the times when we had a crush
on this cutie and he/she wanted something so badly and we got it
for them even without them asking? (E.g. getting the complete set
of hello kitty)
This is subtle control.
In relationship, both parties often practice 1st degree control -
making demands, which made relationship difficult to breathe and
sink holes in the issue of trust. Give person space, but back it up
with psychological evidence that her heart will be with you. This
can avoid up to 68% physical arguments.
Cheers
