Hmm...$1,5k if get gf can mah..(((provided she stay at her
hm.noting wrong at al)))),but is the later part, if u still $1.5
but going to live together or married to settle down...
then......................
$1.5 k is not enough,i almost living wid my other half for bout 5
yrs. $1.5 k really not enough....u say u mid 20s.about 26?i 22 nia,
but i share wid u wat i gone through..some may sound offensive but
its the facts if u wan to settle down wid $1.5k if she never work.
but i tel u the facts of the can say is cohibiting lah.The reply is
al i went through,almose ROM & til getting a house for we
2...
1.)If u smoke lik me, i day $9.50 liao, i month is $285,
2.)No need to eat ah? U expect to eat wat, maggie mee?porriage?even
i so rubbish i also bring my other half to eat in cryatal jade,jap
resturant, the IGOR's at kallang(at $70 per person),at night lea,
dun tel me u dun chiong,or go out, at night go home den eat?if u
& her female friends go out eat, is normal tat a guy pay mah, i
can say if eat hawker cte, so oily, her friends sure will say tings
behind u lah...lik me, i'm not rich,i rather dun eat but let my
other half hv better meal,tat is cal "fu chu" a typical meal for 2
is at least $25 in a better place....al least must sometime bring
her go blow sea wind,eat seafood ,den u no car, taxi got midnight
charge,also money....ya..the parsir ris park, the " elisers
park"(dunno how to spell),stingrey $10(so little, where can
full),drinks-$3,vegatables-$6-$8,dun tel me u eat lik tat only,2
rice, i vegatables, i stingrey? a meal can set u $30 to $40
liao...
3.)Move to JB, u wan to let ur wife to live there mea?not say low
standerts but make her travell here & there?tink bout it,if she
pregnent, u wan her sit bus push here push there ah?Bus 170
lea.Although getting a car in singapore very "bo hua" but something
is "bo bian"tat's y i every month tahan til"face abit green"lolsome
time can...but if R lik me as in my other post u red,the "powerful
quotes needed tat 1, den u know ,i really siao"
4.)U get a house in singapore, 2nd hand normal 4 room at $195k to
$220 k.monthly how much instalments, pub bills?hp bills? who
give?you get $1.5 k /mth, after u eat, transportation /etc, u need
to save how long den can pay for the house deposit.but if u rich
den i go noting to say lar, or ur parents give 1st...den u very
lucky.
5.)Raising a child in singapore is not cheap, 1st month after ur
wife gv birth, the nanny come is counting at $1k &
above,pampers not cheap, unless u willing to wash the cloth diapers
lar, milk power is also not cheap,not is not lik last time i tin
the wat Dumax cheap & so big tin, now 1 milk power tin so small
so expensive,u would'nt wan to gv ur child entry level milk power
rite..
6.)mayb after u read te above, u tink tat abit"siong",but if she
pregnent lea???(my other half go for abortion,cos i dun want my
child to come into this world to suffer,i know i very rubbish,but
in the mist of it, u also must get her te best)ppl go for class B 3
or class C,but i go for class A,cos some hospital dun allow ppl to
stay, some can depend...class A single,air-con, u wan do wat can do
wat, i stay wid her through the whole process,eating wah lan,,so
expensive, but a tip, pay hospital & eat their food, cheaper by
bout $20 for 5 days.u need to provide $500 cash money to let them
deposit if u choose class A,den te rest Medisave,den they return u
the $500 deposit when she leave te hospital....abortions is not
really lik wat u see in video tapes,so fake, i also can act,its
VERY VERY VERY the painful,they insert dunno wat tablet that make
ur other half womb contract,i see liao also regretted wat i done,it
wil automatic tears come down,seeing ur other half suffer,i ask
doctor how is te pain lik.is it lik tattoo?cos i got tatto mah, she
say no, is lik decay tooth,if u got decay tooth b4, den u wil know
liao..tat time i still dunno,till 1 yr ago, den i know wat is hell
abortation is lik.very hard for ur other half..
Save $$ 1st,get married only $26 at ROM,take safety measure, if
pregnent it wil be tough on u.
This is base on wat i gone through, mayb u win TOTO den u can hv 3
kids also no problem.As wat other reply, if she is comfortable wid
u or willing to suffer wid u, den ok,but in ur mind, u wil not wan
to let her suffer if u wan to be long wid her,cos lik me,2004
starting of 5th yr, say long not long, say short not short,no
matter wat,i tink u wil try to gv her te best.even if u hv to
sacrifise a lot.
If somehow ur gf pregent, born ur child, work 18 hours also must
tahan, cos lik that ur wil hv a better family for yourself, i dun
wish to know there wil be another guy to be lik te state i'm in
now....
Gd luck.
