Dear
sir/madam,
I am a girl of age 17 and have a problem with my love life. It
begins like this.
There is this guy, G, who is in the same class as I am. Just last
year (the first three months) we are classmates. We hardly talk or
have a simple conversation. I knew nothing about him and have no
interest in him at all. Then, after three months when a lot of
people will transfer to different school/ class. Coincidentally, we
took the same subject combination and ended up in the same class. I
didnt know that at first. It was when he asked me about my
combination then I knew it. I was praying hard that at least we
would be in the same class ( I wish to change my subject
combination and so my friends wont be in the same class as I am).
God answered my prayer and we ended up in the same class again. We
seldom talk. Just only last June that we met on the bus and had a
decent conversation. I was puzzled because I and G cant be
considered friends and I was walking with a friend, Willy, to
school. My friend and I was interrupted by him. He tried to catch
up and talk to me. I was standing between my friend and G. We
talked until we reached the Lecture theatre in the school. The next
day, the three of us met in the bus again. This time when we
alighted the bus, my friend purposely quicken her pace. Knowing
what she was thinking, I walked faster too. Then G walked faster,
trying to catch up with us. The same thing happen next day. The
only difference is I walk at my usual pace because I think it is
rather rude to avoid him. At that night, our class had an outing;
watch a play. Jane , Val and I wanted to meet up before getting to
the destination. Val was very late so we left without her to meet
up with our class. Luckily, we reached there on time. G was sitting
behind me and asked me you are late?. I told him what had
happened. Willy was sitting beside G and she giggled. She told me
that I should switch places with her. I was annoyed and refused to
reply. Then my other friends are curious and asked willy. She told
the females in my class! Over the past few months, I denied that we
are couples. However, everything changed.
Due to that day onwards, he and I talk a lot. I begin to know his
strengths and weaknesses. I really like his attitude; friendly,
caring.I develop a feeling towards him last November. He is the
president of his club.
I think some things change this year. He did not go straight home
after school; he claimed he had CCA. He went back home only before
dinner (7.00pm). I asked him (in a teasing tone) whether he had a
girlfriend. His reply was no. every wed, after lesson ended, he
will rush to his cca venue. Only these past few weeks that I
suspected something. Does he like a girl in the same CCA as him? I
cant confirm this.
1) past few days, coincidentally, we met after alighting the bus. I
go to school early as I thought G will be going to school at the
last minute. I wanted to avoid him at the time-being. He approached
me then I know it was him. We went to school. In school, a girl in
the same cca as him greet him and told him she cant go to the
meeting.I heard he asked why. Not wanting to disturb him, I walked
quickly. He quickly ended his converse and caught up with me.
2)these past few months,whenever I walked past him with a friend of
mine. He would ask that friend of mine something. He used to ask me
something instead of someone standing beside me.
3) I saw him and his friend eating lunch with two girls from the
same cca. This confuse me as he normally eats with his other two
good friends. his good friends were sitting on the bench in front
of him.
4) he would ask me some remedial things via mobile phone (sms)
instead to his good friends
5) He asked about my health after he knew i was sick and how i
recover.
My heart hurts. I have never eaten lunch with him before,. He was
always having meals with his good friends.
Could it due to the fact that last year, I seemed too friendly
towards a few guys? We laughed and walked together. I often mention
the same guy to him.
Is this just a wishful thinking that he likes me too? I dont have
the guts to tell him I do.
I wish that I could just forget about him but I know I cant. I
tried and am trying now. I know I would end up getting hurt. How
could I forget about him? Is this a good decision? What should I
do? I can't tolerate any longer, maybe i will go bonkers of my
friend teasing us being a couple. i think G is 'flirty' as he is
very friendly and caring towards females.
pls reply as soon as possible. thanks. by the way u can call me
M
