I disagree (No hostility here hor??? 
).
If u look @ a r'ship & before it even begins, u think of the
end (possibilities incl'd), then wldn't it be too pessimistic &
u might end up being too cynical in the r'ship. How r u gonna give
ur all & ur full trust tt way?
R'ships r formed, r'ships end, it's all part & parcel of life.
I can't be cynical abt the person I wanna enter a r'ship wif. And
ultimately, if it was meant to be, it will be : )
RP
