skeujin SG well trust takes alot of buildg up bt oni a single mistake to tear it all down. if u tink tt the r/s is worth saving n u hav the patience to start fresh. thn go for it.
p|gGyPeN SG But if u dun forgive and forget ur mistake .. u’ll always be guilty and always feel bad … which doesn’t make the r/s any better?
AdAptAliS SG x2 I seem to be agreeing to everything others say. My friends just quarrelled due to one breaking the trust. Real bad mistake. But i think they should be getting over it soon. Or at least i hope.
skeujin SG u shd always feel bad if u hav dissapointed yr partner. its up to her to forgive u n for u to make her hapi n in turn, her hapiness will b yours...
AdAptAliS SG In what way is forgiving self? I don't know but i don't forget my mistakes, that is if one is kind enough to tell me about it, so that i won't commit them again.
p|gGyPeN SG I made a mistake once in the r/s, detrimental one i must say. But he forgave me and we almost never talked abt it. However, after all these while, i've never been able to forgive myself, i simply can't get over it.
laurence82 SG I forget them all, even forum quarrels or personal snipe which I ignore. Forget about them, and move on. Life goes on anyway. Dont sweat the small stuff!
True_Xerion SG not forgettin one's mistakes in a r/s helps set the bar for the future of that r/s & IF it doesn't work out in the end, at least it'll be a reference point for next r/s Forgiving well, i guess it depends on the severity & context yah? TX
p|gGyPeN SG i can almost always forget the small and unhappy stuffs in my life coz i m bo chup. yet i can't do it this time. I think it's unhealthy never to bring things up again (not tt i want to) but ... its like running away from what has happened.
