same age as mi... ok muz listen to the big jie jies n gor gor n
study hard... 
hm... okay serious
As Fireice say, ppl at ur age shd emphaises on studies. It's not
wrong to go steady but always remember Study MUST come first. Being
U still in secondary school, u still have a long journey to go in
Life. Perhaps at ur age, most likely is juz infatuation. Every1
goes by this stage of their life. N once u get older n wiser (with
the knowledge/experiences learned), u can then start ponder these
endless problem