goblin80 SG Got a question for u people out there….can someone advise me on what is incest?? Does loving someone who is your cousin(father side) consider incest??? Just falling in love and not doing anything sexually….can someone please advise me….I have fallen in love with my cousin…..
dumbdumb! SG eh... first u must know why incest is wrong lor... its due to the dna thingy where like if ur dna damaged, then if someone with the same blood type will suffer the same defect.. then if u 2 screw screw, the kid will get screwed up. i think father side cannot rite
Paperboat SG it's not incest if no sexual activities are involved. are you very young? yours sound more like an infatuation to me. in any case, such kind of r/s is still very unacceptable in conservative singapore. you might just end up like what your sig has indicated.
798 SG Insect is small animal with segmented body and 6 legs. And it can really freak you out. Oops! You mean incest, not insect.
goblin80 SG well, i don't think it's infatuation coz i'm not a young kid....i'm in my mid-twenties....we have the same feeling towards each other....i just wanna know what's the definition of INCEST....coz it's affecting us rather badly whenever this word comes into our mind....we're worried that if we do get together and no one in the family can accept this fact.....of coz there won't be any sexually actions done....
epImetheus SG not dating is ok. don't you feel awkward when there is gatherings with her around? btw, are you on good terms with her ?(e.g. know her hp no. , her birthday, her likes & dislikes, ever gave her presents B4 for any kind of occasion?)
Devil1976 SG It means that both of you would probably not be able to get a normal child. And probably alot of PRESSURE from the people around you too?
goblin80 SG Y shd i be awkward? We’re always on very good terms…She has told me before dat she likes me as well…..i know alot abt her…..i have given her presents as well….does it matter??? BTW, we’re of the same age….
goblin80 SG I never intend to have any intimate actions towards her…..the pressure around us is too much….i do believe that in such a conservative country n tradition chinese thinking, it will causes alot of stress n pressure….
boy in blues SG i guess if you really serious all the way. prepare for childless family. you sure ok. what about your parents?
goblin80 SG I won’t mind being childless or anything….now the problem lies in how should our family members be informed of this…they won’t be able to accept all these…..especially my grandparents….
epImetheus SG your grandparents are not immortal. wait for a few years, by that time maybe you won't like your cousin anymore......
goblin80 SG Just worried that we will drift apart as we wanna avoid this issue….time will heal the pain but is it really such a good idea? U can live in disappointment but can never live in regrets…..
Devil1976 SG How long have you been with your cousin? Perhaps you should just see how things go? I have a friend who used to fall in love with his cousin too. Now he's married with a kid. But not with his cousin.
