help !! X bf owe me lotsa $$ n keep avoiding me now !

last SG · 2004-02-18T14:36:34+00:00

THe last resort is to go to his parents and tell them about it.

nanako SG

my x bf still owe me lotsa $$ which he borrow from me..
he owe me 8k + , all my hard earn money..
keep calling him can't find him.
he's avoiding me ..
wat should i do..

s|nNeD SG

oh dear… this is bad… have you tried contacting his friends?

KrU SG

Not much chance to get back… all the best...

shan_cai SG

I can 101% confirm ur money is a gone case...
U wont get them bk liao... Dis type of guys oso got...

bjork SG

report this to the police.

LoVeMeLoVeMenOt SG

ermmm very hard to get back....either contact his friends or report to the police? Neutral

nww16 SG

alway remember before u lend $$ to anyone lend wat u can afford to lose.... Cool

shan_cai SG

I hate guys who cheats gers of their feelins, money n body...
They r utter b**tards!

FireIce SG

baotoh to his parents

Paperboat SG

i think police report won't help too. u need evidence when u resort to legal means and i'm sure u won't ask ur ex to issue u an iou when u lent him the money right.

maybe try talking to his family members?

IamAngeline SG

OMG...

haiz...
think ur $$ should be gone liaoz...

since he deliberately wanna avoid you... guess there's nothing much for you to expect in return.. There's nothing you can do either..

perhaps try asking ur frenz that know him and give him a call up.. at least get in contact with him b4 having any conclusion

nanako SG

frankly speaking
somewheere in my heart oso got think i can't get it back liao ..
but do u know the heart pain , all ur hard earn $$ u save since young all gone.

his frens oso can't find him liao .
call his hse , always can't find him too ....

IamAngeline SG

U lend it to him when u 2 were still 2gether?

s|nNeD SG

then maybe you want to make a trip down to his house to see wat has happened? talk to his parents?

nanako SG

i lend to him abt 1 yr b4 we broke up ..
actually me n him was together for 6 yrs + then at the last yr , he go do those MLM things, then start to borrow from me.

there even abt 400+ is i pay for him ( coz his hp line is under my name) after we broke up ah, then he oso refuse to pay me ...

can u understand the agony i'm going thru

weidev SG

leave him a note... tell him to return u when he has the money...
if u keep on haunting him... the reason y he avoid u is he is afraid... even if u can find him... he no money... also cannot return u... trust him once more... once he has the money i am sure he will return u... Wink

s|nNeD SG

MLM... sigh... greed blinds man of everything... Neutral

IamAngeline SG

Haiz stupid MLM.......

Just as unexpected, u never know what will happen in future..

to be frank as things shown, it's kinda diff for you to get the $$ back..

perhaps u can really do what some of the forumites mentioned you can try approaching the family to see if they can try to solve this prob... at least not solve.. but to locate him~~

BearBear® SG

one of my best friend also owe me 5k+ for 2 yrs liao..... at first he said gonno pay me through monthly installments of $400.... but after 1 payment, he mia liao.....

nanako SG

thank u all for all the replies...

i did call his parents , but they jus say its between us, nothing they can do.

i think i will need to find him. . . mayb like u all have suggested , wirte him a note .