Then what
if you eventually marry that person? The I presumed this sexual
thought will then flow in?
Moral is playing its part here not because of love.
Yes, its true, studies has shown discipline is waiting will result
in better conscience sexual marriage life because of the qualities
shown from respecting one another to abstain. But because sex is
such a subjective issue between couple, its never always the case
now. Sex or abstain from
it cannot guarantee you a harmonious path in relationship
either.
In our current society, people are practicing 'Series Monogamy' -
in being responsible and solo having sexual relationship with one
that they love. And that means only if they love their partner
would they lay their hands on them. Of course, this has to be
mutual. You will never enjoy sex with one party having all the
pleasure and the other party worrying or feeling guility. It has to
come from both.
Cheers