Should i play along?

thoreldan SG

I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who’s the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?

MooKu SG

Both of you are in the wrong Rolling Eyes

You KNOW that she has a boyfriend already, but yet you continue to date her.

She errs where she two-times.

ditzy SG

I was in your shoes once. I felt very bad. But yet i know the bf treat her like nobody. She lied to me say she was single. If she told me the truth i wouldn't even want to consider her. When i found out the truth, i pretend she didn't even exist.

She got me into a fine mess. Her bf same lecture as me. One day, she told her bf abt me. I was confronted. To this day he's still stalking me, calling my mobile at the deadest hours of the morning. He must have plenty of free time and money to spare.

I just ignore him, put my hp on 10secs divert. I wonder if they break up yet. Coz the girl say wanna break with the guy in January. I totally lost contact with her already. But I'll find out when I go back Brissy coming weekend.

Farmer Brown SG

welll there's no wrong no right here. its for her to make a decision. and dun listen to the bullshit your friends would say ie. "oh, she did it once she can do it again"

thats nonsense.. this is abt love.. anything goes.. even if she has never broken up to go with someone else doesn't mean u can't be the first and vice versa

just go with the flow.. important thing is that she sorts out her feelings. hey.. if she feels equally for the both of u, then maybe the 3 of u should sit down and talk about it...its past the 90s.. time to embrace new ideas...

thoreldan SG

hmm...when i started wooing her, she didnt tell me she's attached either. Only when i asked out her recently did she tell me. From out conversation, i know that she isnt very confident abt her current r/s. How shall I get her to make a decision, didnt wanna make her stressed up.

ditzy SG

I was the fool. Even a gal friend of mine told me i had been used. Never again will I get into a situation like this.

I'm still figuring how to get the bl**dy bf off my bl**dy back. He's a dingdong, always a dingdong. Worst thing is have to see him in lecture all the time.

All I can say is good luck to you. If I were you, I'll stop now. This is the only advice I have for you. Get out before it gets too late. You don't want to be tommorow's gossip of the week.

boy in blues SG

this guy is over-possesive and wants to control her social life though they aren't husband and wife. she will do well without him.

ditzy SG

You got that part right. The gf still with him so to give him face when his parents come over visit him. After that its sayonara to him. Dunno if that came true. Don't wish to find out.

I only know her bf turn gay already, got interest in me. Call me late late at night all the time. But I reject and ignore him, coz i straight.

Yunhaier SG

P.S: Is she a Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio? Twisted Evil

Cheers

ditzy SG

She's scorpio and its damn accurate.

I'm capricorn, accurate only on the eternally slim part. Laughing

BrUtUs SG

do u seriously like her? if not can treat it like a fling.... otherwise ask her who she reali wants... make her choose.... Cool

Yunhaier SG

Yeah bingo! Twisted Evil

Boo777 SG

I don't believe itz got something to do with horoscope.
Until she's a got a ring around her left(or izzit right??)hand 3rd finger(or izzit 2nd??), you got every right to compete, she got every right to choose.

If she dumps you for another guy, take it like a man. I don't believe she's the only tree in the amazon forest... ya??

May the best man wins. Good luck.

springtime SG

sorry side track:
Yun,have noticed you always ask this question .... just wonder what are the suppose characteristic of scorpio, pisces or cancer??

ditzy SG

Heres a good place for starters, www.astrology.com. I went thru that site b4 and its rather accurate(well , most of it). No kiddin. Idea

Yunhaier SG

Aiyo... the supposed characteristic of your sun sign is easily available anywhere. Usually, I ask this question out of curiousity and not because I am a dead-astrology-rigid-mind-following type.

To read a person's love personality/behavior through astrology needs more than just his/her date of birth. Without timing and place born, the information is severely limited.

Cheers

sillyme SG

that's breaking them up..

sam0310 SG

well, i feel it's quite normal and ok tt she's going out with you, since she's not confident in her current bf**. like what farmer brown says, just go with the flow, let her sort out her feelings, dun rush her to make decisions. at the same time u can get to know her better and to know better how she really feels abt u.... Cool

**the general rule of relationship in this world is tt ppl always try to get for themselves the most beautiful flower they can find in the garden...author unknown

Devil1976 SG

Cool