Originally posted by bus:
Hi, All. This story happened to me.
2 weeks ago, I attended an outing by SDU/SDS. I managed to speak to
2 ladies during the event.
Lady 1: When I told her I am a SDS member, she gives U that type of
"Don;t come closer to me" that type of look.
Lady 2: she does not know that I am a SDS member and we keep in
contact thru email and when I told her the truth, She disappear
into thin air!!!
3 comments I have from this events
1. The society is very realistic, people judge U based on
PAPER
QUALIFICATIONS. I am NOT QUALIFY to associate with all these HIGH
CALIBRE citizens -- I am not trying to be sarcastic but facts speak
louder than words.
My say. Your conclusion is based just on 2 ladies you've met in the
event. If you think they're narrow-minded, don't you think your
conclusion's a little so too?
As much as I do admit that higher qualifications would probably
give you a 'better edge' in certain ways, it don't necessarily have
to be a FIXED case.
2. There will always be a THIN LINE drawn between the 2
sides..........
Probably.. Especially when you're the one who starts to believe
there is... ie. the line would be drawn by YOU.
3. I feel that the higher a person's qualification is, the more
he/she lacks of Human warmness or "Ren Qing Wei"..............so
pathetic. Do U agree?
Not necessarily... A person with lower qualification can be equally
without 'ren qing wei' too...
I will never consider to participate in any of the co-host events
in future. I will only join those by SDS. I still feel proud to be
here.
Well, I myself also want to end the association fast (I feel no
future) as I merely testing her out by asking her a simple question
but ............... A simple question tells it all.
A simple question usually don't tells all... At least not as much
as you would like to tell yourself?
I have seen the ugly picture of human kinds...pathetic.
Any sad stories from SDU/SDS to share?
Ugly pictures of human kinds could be seen in many places. Your
event just happens to be one of them. If you like, you could
probably find 'beautiful pictures' too?