DumbDumb: If ev. one's moral was upright, I'd say it's easy to
trust each other.
RP sez: Actually, it oso does depend on how secure 1 is in the
r'ship. If a person has been cheated on before, there cld be a
certain degree of paranoia : ) It's understandable. But it doesn't
mean u hafta test the person u're wif now, it isn't fair to
him/her, cosh u're judging him/her to be an a**hole/biotch juz like
ur ex.
DumbDumb: But reality is this... Everyone of us is screwed up some
way or another. That's why there r breakups.
RP sez: True, we're all Not perfect. But I'd sez it's more abt wat
an indiv. can accept, & to wat degree the fault is. Breakups
occur when the indivs can't accept the faults in their partners
(which doesn't mean they're wrong, it's juz how life is).
DumbDumb: Testing isn't plain stupidity, it's putting to action the
phrase "trust is earned & built upon, Not given".
RP sez: True, trust is earned. But u dun hafta be tested to earn
it.
DumbDumb: Before u protest against the girl's insecurity, think abt
it, wtf have u done to deserve her blind faith in u.
RP sez: Trust is built over time, blind faith may be a tad naive.
But testing someone wld show doubt in tt person's trustworthiness
& integrity. Doesn't tt person haf the right to feel hurt? U
dun hafta test a person's trustworthiness in order to noe tt the
person is trustworthy. Thru ups & downs, life's experiences,
thgs u share together, u'll noe if tt person's reliable or
Not.
