Originally posted by Yunhaier:
How many times, when we fell in love, we
felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like
a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that
this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around
and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your
sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your
failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to
remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually
smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?

[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b]
inspiring indeed. a point to ponder.
in real love u want other person's good, in romantic love u want
the other person.
i think too many young minds are poisoned by fantasy tv dramas that
owning the one they love is good.
if u love the person, naturally u wish he/she be happy.
way to go yunhaier!