falling for a colleague

Parka SG

So is that a reason or a problem?

rainyday SG

my 2 cents worth are that, the best way to defeat a crush ---- is to get to know him better. i think crushes are so because people admire other people from afar!! you don't see the bad side but only the good side. you don't see the kind of personality that you might not like because u don't know him. once u get to know him better... i think it'll just fade away because it's not that easy to find the right one. if it doesn't then, congrats, you've found the one. but u also have a bigger headache...... but that can wait Very Happy

twinkle_stars SG

i suppose..its both a reason and a prob... Sad

bjork SG

hmms.. so ur department & his is like fire & water la.. impossible to come in contact one huh... tough tough.. Neutral
How abt hmms... does ur company have like D&D hehee.. or like activites.. my company use to have bowling outings.. etc.
Such activites aim is to let each department get to know other departments better so maybe u shld make use of such activites to sort of get closer to him?

Imperfect SG

yes gossips can kill... just because her colleagues caught me talking to her they started all the gossips and now the gal will try her best to avoid me... i can only stop all of them from gossiping and lower the chance of having many people ard us when i need to talk to her about work else they will start making fun of her again... sigh why can't these pple grow up... i thot this will only happen during my JC times...
Just say hi to him next time u see him and that may bring him to initiate a conversation with u... and maybe even more
sometimes guys just want to be sure that they wont be embrassed for doing some things... its a matter of 'face' Mr. Green
Good luck

twinkle_stars SG

how good will it be if i had the chance to... my boss is darn sensitive..he knows whats happening ard..recently there were some relationship happening within..and he got all of us to talk.
how to find this kind of chance when i need to go to their dept and do sumthing..? almost impossible.. what if my boss finds me fishy..? hai... Crying or Very sad

Imperfect SG

I didnt say that u must delibrately go and find him just to say 'hi'. What i meant was if u are to see him again next time just say a hi to him and not just continue to stare at each other. So what if your boss ask u in for a talk? Yes it will be a bit pressurizing but you can tell your boss that you are just being friendly to a colleague. There are couples in my company and they are all low profile. They dont really talk a lot to each other during working hours.Just dont mix up work and personal life... Wink

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