Remember one thing, u are now very vex about it and this can
mislead u into wrong decisions...
Try to cast all these prejudgement aside and have a good talk with
her. Find out on what basis she based on for all that she have
said. U need to let her know your intention also. When things are
said differently, it brings different meaning. U maybe wanting to
get some support from her by asking her what u shld do in the
future. But will it be better if u ask it in this way : "what do u
think abt me doing this in the future" at least for this question,
u showed her u have an idea of what u wanna do and is seeking
advice or other points of view and not just hoping for answers from
others. I think no gf will like to spoonfeed the bf with answers
without him thinking through first...
good luck