Shy infront of girls?

therichdad SG · 2004-01-31T20:04:21+00:00

after u appear to be confidence and den began to stutter infront of the ger.. the ger will wonder if u realli haf confidence..

therichdad SG

How do you overcome that? i see sum ppl can talk so freely, but when i talk to em i kinda get a lil embarrassed and get paranoid if anything’s wrong with me as in physical look. does that hav anything 2 do wif self confidence?

sunny6110 SG

Practice makes perfect … no short cuts… Me still believed in Personal Grooming over any other formulas.. haha

Yunhaier SG

In fact, it's everything about self confidence.

When you are shy, you are not comfortable with your environment, although you speak much less and become very conscious and aware of your environment. With strong self confidence, your environment is merely a place & people and you are able to behave the usual way you always do. Rolling Eyes

Cheers

xiao_p SG

well i always speak very little one…

Paperboat SG

i think advisor yunhaier more or less sums up the reason behind. and i think sunny’s solution is very good. when you know that you have made an effort to look good, your confidence and self-esteem will increase. and this is infact the easiest way. also, try to speak more…..start with your group of buddies first. you can do it.

alwaysdisturbed SG

well all i can say is juz b urself…dun make a fool of urself..

dumbdumb! SG

haha i oso used to be like that... well.. it gets easier when u talk to them lor

look at it like a game.. get pass this stage
blah blah. Mr. Green

therichdad SG

actually i’ve no prob with my buddies, fooling around all the time. yet…

bladez87 SG

don worry… i oso have the same prob… i now chasing a gal from irc. who so happened to have met me ONCE when i was in her school. but i no notice her…y ? bcos i was like u , embarassed when teachers n students were staring at me cos of my gold hair. damn i regret being so timid but we were bornt like this. accept it n try to change. me trying my best to change le worz wish me luck horz

Patrik SG

Jus be urself and tok normally loh...
Got a few friends who behave normally in front of friends den behave differently when there are girls around....
-_-
LAME

fumih_81 SG

yah exactly..must really buck up and try to talk more...if not pple think you are aloof.

worse, sekali no girls interested... Laughing

WrX_STi SG

same problem as me lei.. with own frens whom i noe.. very noisy and crappy.. when alone, kinda quite..

and chatting with pple whom i juz noe its kinda stammer and duno hw to contd.. damn sianz.. Wink

and when stranger duno me say, they'll say my looks can sort of kill pple.. haiz.. Crying or Very sad

wuming78 SG

if u haf ur self esteem, u wud not be scared of talking to strangers (be they gals or guys).

but i mus admit, it depends on the context. if i noe the gals r like someone i wont be interested (and she wont be interested in me), e.g. my fren's gf, i wont feel shy meeting and talking to her. but if its like someone whom i mabbe interested in, den diff story... Embarassed

WrX_STi SG

diff lei.. from outlooks, to me i find it hard to apprach gers and start talking.. sommore bery paiseh lei…

Hocklez SG

i am also like that in sch... haizzz wat can i do...

therichdad SG

hmm… now that i’ve realised, some gals whom i’ll nv b attracted to i have no problems, like those plump ones (no offence). but those “roxy”girls (observation) always… arrg…

Hocklez SG

I am like cannot talk to most type leh.... gals is hinting to me liao saying i am shy towards them... haizzzz

sgboy2004 SG

I oso shy in front of gals

Laughing

Black Cat SG

i oso have tis problem only with strangers and the girl tat like

DeadPoet SG

I see, that explain the paper bag. Mr. Green