StarPuppy SG I told everyone before I and my crush,were good friends and after I told her I like her,she gave me the cold shoulder…..but dunno why when I face her,I feel like I am seeing a ghost….my cousin tell me I cannot stand rejection but I really “bu fu qi”(not happy) that we sudden;y break off as friends,how do I continue now,I want to break off,but I have to see her in school everyday
StarPuppy SG I am also like the guy who posted "need advice" I told the gal I like her because I thought its right that she should know,the whole class knew about it but I really dunno.....did she really like me or was she playing with my feelings
reallieRAW SG I thought you are the one who like her? I can't advise you much, just try my best. Guess you are young? There needs to be a certain level of maturity to handle this type of situation well. You either acquired it or well....learn it now You are a brave guy I bet you did juz the right thing in letting her know your feelings. She shld know abt it. However, are you ready for the consequences? It's much more easier to handle if she likes you since you will know what to do & not be posting your thread here, am I correct? If she isn't, I might have answer to whether she likes you or is she toying with your feelings What do you like abt her? As a fren? Wanting her to be your gf only? Or after you have gotten the wrong "signal" from her? All in all, start with the basic. You did the RIGHT thing by confessing your true feelings. Think abt it, if you didn't tell her, so are you gonna know if she likes you as well? Can't be trying to figure this out all your life right? As for whether she is gracious enuff to accept this honour, I cant decide. You can't control wat others may react but you definitely can control how you gonna react to them. If she avoids, ask her why? (though it is abvious in this case ) Try to strike a conversation and understand why from her. Maybe she thought you wanted her to be her bf? Or perhaps she wasn't ready for all these? Cld it be that she wants to be your fren only and doesnt know how to react to this situtation? There are many possibilities. You sure can control how you want the situation to develop. Don't feel embarrassed. Feel proud Talk it out with her and understand why. WHY? WHY? WHY? WHY? WHY?
BrUtUs SG tis kind of thing quite normal, for now jz back off, after some time then start saying hi or something... go concentrate on ur studies...
