B_ored SG Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..) Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
Bontakun SG If happen my gal do dat. Sayonara to da R/S. If compare me to her ex. Y they bweak up in da 1st place? Go back to him & live happily ever after lah. Every stead treat their stead differently. Cannot compare.
shawnsh SG hmmm… does reputable families background still part and parcel of every relationship? the guy’s parent who is a hawker cannot be with a girl’s parents who are lecturers? does the guy have to carry the problems created from the former generation? did God ask us who we wanted our parents to be when we were brought into this world? i guess we just have to make the best out of what we have…
_attitude_ SG how come cannot.. its like if you love some one y would u chap abt their past .. its the present and future together that counts ya?.. its like love conquers all.. i know it sound very fairtale but ya. y can't a hawker centre girl go with a rich guy ?nothing wrong wat.. its ppl who make it look like its a crime to go out with a person one level lower/higher then you .. ya?
Bochupi SG hmm...what if it's a hawker centre guy going for a rich girl? The relationship is possible but I think most of the people will say the guy is going after the girl's money lor. Think the guy must be able to take the critic
_attitude_ SG yeah but if u love someone i guess all those critisim is mothing to u lor.. as long happy can liao wat.. haha
Bochupi SG hehe, true lah but most man got pride one mah...just imagine people calling you xiao pai lian. Unless the guy very thick skinned if not sure kanna affected one.
_attitude_ SG yeah tat is so true.. but wat i can't understand is y ppl have to be so judgemental.. sad...
WrX_STi SG nice.. well said. totally agree.. how to find 2 guy identical? if she is the materialistic sort and ur conditions lose to her ex.. den ask her y be with u..
CryoGenic SG How much do you love her? If she's the one, then no choice have to bear it and try to work to be better... If just a normal relationship, tell her go back to her ex or tell her ur dream ger is rich, talented, giving, humble etc... why u cant get this kind of gal... www.emoteeglobes.com
Maya061 SG I had this kinda problem before with my ex fucking b/f. He's always (I mean ALWAYS) comparing me with his fucking ex g/f. And you know what...I dunno abt. ur g/f but my ex b/f was STILL comparing me with his ex until the last minute we're together. He said : "From this minute, u r no longer my g/f. And u know what, i think she's a lot better than u". Then I said : "Oh Ok. U can reunited with her now." I felt so relieve and grateful that I'm no longer with him. I'd die now if I still stay with him. And you know what..now he's begging me to come back with him. I said : "What about her ???" He said : "U r better than her. Will you be my g/f again ?" "WTF !!!! No Way, Man !!! U can go to hell with her. I dun care !!!" See...he never stops comparing. I bet if he has another g/f, he'll start comparing and comparing again. If u can stand her always comparing u with his ex..then stick with the consequences, that u'll be hurt by it. Anyway..if she thinks that his ex is better, then why broke up ? Oh..I know..she must did the "comparing" also to his ex. If not...get a new one !!! There's still plenty of nice gals out there, who's not comparing u with their ex.
ernestantan SG I used to be after this bigboobs gal who has nothing good to say about me... always say this guy that guy so nice to her, so handsome, so rich, etc... i must admit i was infatuated with her 40% because of her looks, 25% of her bigboobs, 25% coz she nice gal besides the things she talk abt me... and 10% coz i sympathise in her family situation... gee... after one year, really cannot take it... what the heck..
