Honestly...what's wrong with being good to others???

last SG · 2004-01-05T19:56:39+00:00

i agree~ dun anyhow send wrong signal mah

birdbird SG

when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!! Shocked Shocked why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong??? Evil or Very Mad

FireIce SG

be good can...
cannot be too good....
there is a limit to how much and how far u can help others......
mus learn how to protect urself oso

the Bear SG

people will take advantage of your goodness... so what?

in the end, it's the bastards who will lose.. they lose in terms of dignity and honour...

all they gain is material things...

just because others are terrible, why become jaded and change for fu(kheads like them? become worse for them??

be good.. even when the world is terrible, be good Smile

thhong22 SG

being good is nothing wrong…. but don over do it…..

birdbird SG

im just very sad that they say its my fault.it’s me who cause them to take me for granted or take advantage of me.and these words come from the one that i love.what a joke!!!???i really like the Pet Shop boys song “what i have done to deserve this”......

birdbird SG

can quote example????

thhong22 SG

it's not ur fault lah.... u like her of cos u will b nicer to her....
if she takes u for granted..... i felt tat it's her being unfair to u loh
u not wrong in anyway

the Bear SG

don't take it to heart... hopefully he'll change... those who are good need not change, although you should look around, see if people are trying to take advantage...

there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with being good Smile

thhong22 SG

hmm.... if u r equally good to everyone.... i think nobody will say anything.... but if u r specially nice to this gal u like (of cos it's very normal) but if she takes u for granted.....like very bad loh Neutral

Bochupi SG

nothing wrong wif being good lah…just that some people think can always get your help so they keep using u lor. Like in my case, I always help my ex when she need $$ for paying bills and debts that till now she still msg me that she need $$ from me till I fed up and ignore her. It’s time like this that you should stop helping cause you know that they are making use of you thinking that they dont have to pay back at all.

Yunhaier SG

Being good to others is a virtue, though I rather be evil and when I am good, people appreciate that side of me.

Cheers

marlboro SG

Good one! Twisted Evil

Parka SG

Parka's equation of life: Do it if you're happy

If you're happy being good to others, do it.

If you're unhappy that people are taking advantage of you, then just stop being good.

boy in blues SG

Mr. Green there's nothing wrong with being good to others. it takes guts and courage. most people don't have.

weidev SG

as long as u feel tat it is alright... y nt... no point always listening to others... Mr. Green

WrX_STi SG

as a hokkien saying goes "zho lang chin chai buey hiao kin, but zho lang buey sai chin chin chai chai"

gd to others can.. dun try to be too gd den let pple tk advantage.

hopy SG

as long as u do wat u feel is rite...if pple take adv of u, tt is their choice...then it shld be up to u to c if u 1 to continue being nice to tt person liao lor...

u can't always pls the whole world...do things w/in ur means ba..'yi zong mi yang bai zong ren' so its perfectly normal tt diff pple hv diff views n thinking...if not pple will not be still wishing for 'world peace' liao lor Rolling Eyes

cheer up k Wink

Forever84 SG

Theres nothing especially if you like getting dirt all over yourself being a walking carpet and all.
I think you shouldn't be good to every single person because well, some people don't deserve it.

Devil1976 SG

X 2....

coolger03 SG

sounds like waht my fren always tell me... that i'm being too good for someone... even thou i ended up getting hurt... hehehe... and it seems like my frens got more worked up than me...
but i dun mind lor... cos i like, that's why i willingly do it...
as long as u r happy with what u r doing, why bother? but like what FI say, must learn to protect urself....