to be frank : our relationship is like S**T now... no good at
all... no harmony.. and i dun feel tt kinda support from her like
what i expected from a gf... i also think tt she;s now not v happy
with our relationship......
there are always ups and downs in relationships. Her quarrels
and scoldings are a result of her unhappiness. You expect her to
support you as a gf, but have you love and cared for her as a bf?
everyone recieves and gives love in their own way, it seems the way
she recieves love is different from the way you give it. try to
find out how she recieves love and let her know how u want to be
loved too. If both can give love the way the other party recieves
it, then things will get better.
lotsa my fren told me to juz break up la.. since it seems tt it's
not working out.... for me: break up is also good! more freedom...
can see girls or go out with friends-who-are-girl without guilty
feeling.. nobody check on u.. nobody scold u for this and tt (right
guys? ) ... i won't die if she ask me to break up w her la....
hehe.... but then.. i also think of her feeling.. how if i ask for
a break up? will i hurt her or sumthing?
no one dies from breakups. they die from chosing to end their
lives. if she is dispensible to you then what is the point of
continuing? please do not continue a relationship just becos you
feel "responsibility towards her" or "afraid to hurt her feelings".
you will end up hurting her and yourself even more. All breakups
will hurt, there is no escape from that.
When we're not in the fighting mode... she always ask when we're
getting married (funny hor..hehe...) and this happen many times. I
dun really like to be asked this question at this point of
time..... coz now still to eaerly to talk abt all this...and she
also like to force me to want to stay together with her ASAP....
but i'm against staying together before marriage... if i say no
ah.. whalau eh.. sky fall down on me and i start kanna blah blah
liao...
my guess is that she thinks things will get better if both if
you are under one roof, finally get to see you everyday, etc. but
it is clear you are not ready for that so don't. i support your
stand on not staying together and "being a proud male v". not easy
woah...
Have a heart to heart talk with her and like yunhaier said - have
understanding and compromise. There is still hope.
may things turn out well for you.
