Troubled and confused.. Pls help

manRutd SG

My gf and i have been dating for months. However during this period, she continues to receive sms from her ex (messages sayng he still cares abt her etc). My gf still maintains a "friend" relationship with him. Dear Aunt Agony, i cant help but feel concerned about what her ex is doing and whether it will threaten our relationship. i am troubled and confused over this thing for quite some time..always wondering what her ex is up to...

Pls help/advise

ConfuSed Crying or Very sad

FireIce SG

trust ur gf….........

audlenelee SG

x 2!

if she's not meant to be urs, ex or no ex oso will have problems mah...

Ecxentrique SG

What is yours is yours.. you can try your best to really win her.. but ultimately its really her choice who she wants to be with. But your are at an advantage since u r the official bf.. so the previous relatioship ur gf had must have been over bcos of some negative things that has happened.. So you can use it to your advantage..
All's fair in love and war..

eutjin SG

trust her, PLUS tell her about how you feel. but, pls try not to sound like the super jealous type when you tell her. give her some space ..... everyone couple needs space away from the r/s

manRutd SG

Recently, I told my gf how i felt about the whole situation..she was abit taken aback and asked why i didn't tell her earlier abt my uneasiness. She said sorry for indirectly causing so much worry to me and told me i shouldn't worry too much.

But after a few days, my worries came back. I told myself that i have to trust her completely but it just didn't happen as fast as i wanted too...I knew it would take some time before that would to happen.

ConFuSed

Devil1976 SG

"Dread is the sadness when somethings happens to your relationship and there's nothing much you can do about it....

Worse is the situation.... Where actually nothing has happened to your relationship, but foolishness ends it....."