Susan,
In response to your question, normally, I will keep it to myself,
unless I'm really close to someone.
Regarding issues related to affaies of the heart. There are times
when u have to let go, means u have to let go.
Having a relationship is a two way thing, it is like two persons
holding to a extremely fragile glass ball.
If either side is holding on too tightly, it will break. If not
held on tight enough, the glass ball will drop, and shatter in to
pieces.
Give it some thought, I believe you will understand what I'm trying
to tell you.
Give yourself sometime to get over it, you can cry all you wan, but
dun forget to wipe your tears, and brace yourself.
Remember the fact that the world would not stop turning because of
whoever left whoever.
Stay strong yeah, and it will all be over before you know it.