Well, in this type of situtation, I think you gotta look at
case-by-case basis. It really goes down to who knows you best. For
me, I will definitely find someone who knows me best and whom I
have shared most of my happiness and sadness. When my beloved left
me...I was at a total loss. I went to my best pal........I know all
the consolations he gave won't bring my beloved back. But why did I
still go there? Bcos during that time, I let emotions rule over my
head. I needed support. I wanted to hear the consoling words from
him...........but later.....I realise that it still doesn't help in
the situation. It can only give you momentary
'relaxation'.....
To solve this sadness.....there is only one person to help u. That
is yourself....Although I'm still not totally able to come to terms
with it...I know I still got to. And if u see from past threads
from those who were heart-broken....u will see that most are
encouraged to let go and continue their life....