Cerebral_Assassin SG even though u r attached liao?? the close friend not your bf/gf i mean........ i certainly dun.....and i also won't be the close friend to call up an attached opposite sex friend to chat....dun wanna be mistaken as the "3rd party"
FireIce SG got such "buddies" but we dun chat on fone...... instead we chat online (icq) eberyday.........(if we happen to be online at the same time)
Cerebral_Assassin SG u got bf now meh?? if unattached still ok.....but if when u attached, what will happen to your these buddies?
boy in blues SG yes. SMS daily. but she also got boyfriend who's a good friend of mine. we are not God looking down from above and can spy on every suspicious little thing our gf/bf does. all of us got to lead normal social lives with many friends of both gender and no one can control who we spend time with. so, instead of trying to restrict each other's freedom, show trust and self-confidence that our gf/bf can appreciate us for the gracious people we are. all these are based on the assumption that we had chosen our gf/bf properly with desirable qualities as pre-requisites.
crox SG well, its always great to haf some. but the gal is like like some1 else, no bf. its alrite la if u can control urself and not sow discord. anyway, most of my closer friends are of the opp. sex. dunno y. can any1 advise?
FireIce SG they are juz frens mah...... we chat and gossip and tease about each other's bf/gf........ we know not to cross the line.........
weidev SG ya… don noe leh… i feel uncomfortable… but i don noe hw to tell her… every night she will msg me to the wee hours… telling me of her problems… her daily activities… my gf abit jealous… but she came to accept it…
Cerebral_Assassin SG if u really luv your gf, talk to her abt it and zi dong a bit on your part be less responsive to the gal unless she is a very good friend u cannot lose. your gf probably is not a bit jealous but quite but dun wanna show it to u
s|nNeD SG x2 i totally agree... each still gotta have their own social life and not to isolate the 2 of you alone in tat relationship of you. should get out more!
edLow SG NO. but I used to tok to my close frd (opp sex) chat almost everynite thru internet. But tat was last time lah, before I went NS. Is there a rule tat state cant chat with ur close frd even if he/she is attached?
Danisdead101times SG huh? tongue tied?just tell the truth lah...i think your bf will sure to understand....beta then let him find out himself...it will be a disaster
