Originally posted by Yunhaier:
[b]Lots of quarrel leading to breaking up and patch back
again, etc - such cracks of a relationship cannot be mend. (Note:
it cannot be mend). Going through it one time, probably it fated,
this relationship could probably endure and move on. Anything more
than that, chances are, the ultimate conclusion would have been
declared since then, regardless of how many conscious delaying
effort and tactics one/both are trying to make. 
And you just made one of the top ten mistake man often make in a
relationship: but i realli did my best to fullfill whatever
requirements she wants - the last thing you would do to
keep a relationship running and alive with energy is to feed
whatever your partner demands and wants, according to her standard
and liking. Love gets dull and a woman would lose interest quickly.
Under theories of the art of seduction, your action automatically
opens her up to potential seducer and Poof! Comes a third party -
Twice somemore.
P.S: Why regret if you knew that this relationship will turn out to
be in way? There are many lessons for you to learn and if you don't
realise the hidden morals behind it, you are just wasting the three
years of being together. The fault of people is that they lead
relationship and when it ends, everything goes with it. That's
utterly foolish. You may lose the relationship, but don't lose the
lesson that comes with it.
Cheers [/b]
I am new here , just saw Yunhaier's post,
just a bit of question here ..
about the first parag,. what if our intention is good, and she
willn't listen becos she dun understand it and that leads a
quarrel? What to do in such cases?
the second parag.. do not give her what she wants,. .
althou I read the 'art of seduction', its still hard to figure out
what to give and what not to give.. can someone enlighten me..? as
I have also made the mistake....n always..
btw, that is one of top ten, what are the other 9 mistakes?
