I know this girl by the name of Lynn when I had my first meeting
in this new company. She is one of the business associates that we
have dealings with. I was mesmerized by looks and good character
but I have never thought that I will ever have the opportunity to
have her as a girlfriend, if not friend. One thing for sure, I
would think that I am rather average looking and did not really
impressed her that much.
Months passed, and chances came by whereby I managed to get her
cell phone number through business dealings. Initially, we sms and
emailed each other about work and slowly progress towards more
personal stuff.
Eventually, we had our first date. It was really smooth sailing and
the more I know her, the more I fell for her. She would tell me how
hurt she was due to her previous relationship. We would sms each
other almost every night and chat once in a while on the phone.
Though I was the one who initiated most of the dates and smses, I
was already contented that she would go out with me. We went out
together to do shopping, movies, dinner, etc.
Then came a day, whereby I need to travel aboard for a business
trip for about a week. I try smsing her when I was abroad but she
did not reply at all. When I call her, she said that she is moody
because her ex came back to contact her. I was really devastated
then, my whole world seemed to explode.
When I came back, she no longer email me and seldom sms me. She
seems to drift away from me further and further but I have no idea
why. Though I still ask her out, it seems that she always placed
top priority for her friends' appointments compared to mine. There
was this outing whereby she told me that her ex kept smsing her,
wanting to patch back but her heart has already die. There are
times when I felt like giving up thinking that she does not have
any interest in taking this relationship further but its always
these subtle hints that kept me going strong.
It has been 3 months since our first date, and now I was really
tired, mixed, and vexed.. not knowing what to do next. Everything
seemed so uncertain. I once told her that I really miss her and
wanted to see her more often and she told me that she belongs to
the slow type??? One thing for sure is that she definitely knows
that I am going after her but what is she thinking of???
What should I do now? Should I carry on or simply give up on her? I
am quite certain that if I asked her for her opinion on this issue,
she is likely to say that "We need more time to know each other
better before going further."
Any kind souls out there to help this lost soul? 
