Love relationships - the best friend thingy

last SG · 2003-12-13T11:27:37+00:00

more beauty implied better genes. when that happens there’s really nothing much you can do with the human instinct. IT’s alwo the mate preference of the guy...

sgforums.com SG

See the thing here is dat why should having a bf/gf be mutually exclusive with having best frens ard? I would want to go out with my gf and best frens...I would be too tired keeping a watchful eye seeing who is being attracted to who...it happens because pple are never satisfied with wat they have (or at least this applies to pple who stray...)..so there is not way to prevent this from happenning at all.... if it happens then its probably good cos you will know who your frens are...fack them...

Devil1976 SG

Sometimes the world is cunning. It can be a sad thing, especially if the woman you love falls victim to an ass-hole who would just use her?

loneryu00 SG

Well, if dats da case. ALL is to blame...
1st is dat ass hole for making my "GF" a victim.
2nd is my "GF" for being gullible enuf to fall victim.
3rd is me for being unable to keep her & have faith in her OR never really put much into dat r/s which caused dis to happen...

So... if it happens, I juz have to accept it. No pt sulking or beating da crap outta dat guy. Neutral

Yunhaier SG

That's why I always believe to be a greater-arsehole to counter these arseholes.

To catch the jerk corrupted official, you have to be even more jerk.

P.S: Before you can fully understand how antidotes works, you have to know the poison as well.
Cheers

Devil1976 SG

I used to hold that form of mentality? Like, take your example? 1 out of 3 points is 'governed' by you... And point 2 somehow there MIGHT be something you can do about it... No hard and fast rules here... You DO have a part to play in the whole picture.. It's not about BLAMING. It's about getting things 'right' and getting things done... Especially for your loved one and the relationship?

loneryu00 SG

Hai hai! BUT all these r BLANK tok (tok kok?) coz I never had dis situation B4... Muah ha ha ha ha

So... in any case be happie. Mr. Green

Coco_Coco SG

getting things 'right'?? how?? hmm.. ???

Devil1976 SG

By whatever means appropriate? I just disagree with Loneryu that one should take things just it is always, merely stating that all's to be blamed and just let it be... Sometimes (like the case I'd mentioned much earlier) things could be done... But of course, it would also means knowing when to let go....

Bontakun SG

I agree wif Dev too. But I dun disagree wif LoneRyu here. Every1 have their own waes of seeing things. No matter how its done or handled, as long as U learn from it can liao. How to hold, how to let go. How to move forward, how to back track... Its all in experience here. Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

Hmm... Well said. No hard and fast rules...

Bontakun SG

Haha! Oei... until now U still haven tell me yr "real" name... only got yr contact... No change rite...? Dun worry... some dae I WILL find out yr "real" name... muah ha ha ha ha Twisted Evil

Coco_Coco SG

letting go? it isn't easy....

Devil1976 SG

You have my contact no.? Confused Question

Devil1976 SG

Like I've always said... For a normal individual? It's never an easy thing... Doesn't mean it's impossible? Doesn't mean you don't have to do it when it's necessary....?

Bontakun SG

Yesh... U gave me 1 wat... U oso smsed mee... U said I call U by Dev can liao... we met 3 times liao... last time we met we play pool wat... wif wendy... remember? Laughing

Devil1976 SG

YA... SO my guess is CORRECT... Twisted Evil Just STRANGE why you're posting in here...? Hehhehheh... Mr. Green

Bontakun SG

Muah ha ha ha ha ha!!!
So wats new?

FUMO! >__<

Devil1976 SG

Nay... Nothing much... TOO BUSY and OCCUPIED lately... And THINGS AWAITS me....

Son SG

hmm...i heard it from somewhere is that since the gers are best fren they probably share a somewhat similar interest or personality including types of bf. and since the guy like dat kind of personality in a ger he would probably choose the more attractive one. Mr. Green

Bontakun SG

Ah IC... its so normal when it comes to work... busy & preoccupied... frankly I like to keep my self occupied... time flies faster dun U tink? so no need to get bored & start hallucinating. eh?

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