guys chase gals and vice versa

crox SG

heez…wanna ask y issit tt guys chase gals so common nowdays but the other way round is relatively rare???

BrUtUs SG

its not onli now mah... gals now oso got chase guy liaoz.....

thhong22 SG

cos gals very shy mah Embarassed

loneryu00 SG

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ditzy SG

see below

ditzy SG

I have to disagree with that. I know its hard to believe, but actually my gf was the one chasing me.

crox SG

lol, but i wad i see most of tthe time is tt guys are like the more active side in a r/p and the gals are not. then seems like most guys suffer rejections rather thn gals…

eutjin SG

lucky you Mr. Green

eutjin SG

I guess one thing that discourages a gal from going after a guy is the fear of being rejected. If a guy is rejected, he can be comforted by the fact that ... "it's normal". for a gal it's not so normal.

so, i think gals should go after guys more often now, so that it becomes "normal" Mr. Green

Cerebral_Assassin SG

basically i have done some research on this.........and the conclusion i come up with is this.

girls, when they are young, have the tendency to chase guys that's because they either got the confidence(always got guys chase them, etc...) or they find the guy very perfect, far more superior than the friends around her. when they get older or life settling down(going out to work, etc....), they'll be more and more reserved.

most guys of course will do the chasing especially older guys due to the experiences and confidence they had as they age. girls no matter how are passive creatures.

|-|05| SG

haha same here

gasband SG

not true mah, nowadays more and more guys are chasing guys. Mr. Green

NeonTetra SG

errr.........thats a bad news and y r u laughing? Smile

crox SG

hmm…gals i think can really get passive at times. can admit to other guys initally tt they like so and so but then after awhile change their attitude and say stuff like juz onli wan to be his gd friend or something. haiz, but really, i think tt it is their shyness tt makes them attractive, isnt it?

applesweetgirl SG

true! shy girls are very attractive!!!
woohoo..but for me...is i chase my bf de bah..=)

crox SG

haha, its gd to see gals make the first move…wat age r u anyway?

[email protected]_arms SG

So we are still back at square one… it is confirmed that situations where girls chase guys are rare… it is further supported by the fact that only 1 person here… says his gf chased him. This will never change.

eutjin SG

he could be a very active participant of that activity.

/me keeps my distance Mr. Green

Coco_Coco SG

now also got gals chase guys onez... but very few successful... hmmm... i wonder why... maybe the guys get scared off by gals who are too initiative. Rolling Eyes

[email protected]_arms SG

Well… one girl did make the 1st move on me… I was scared because she seemed well errrr too adventurous as in. She drinks and she goes clubbing at such a young age. But now months later, I realise firstly: its not so bad. Secondly: if I want to get a girl maybe she’s the only one, but that would make me sound desperate. So i focus primarily on the first reason and should take it SLOW. My point is this: I was not scared off because of the fact she made the 1st move, but because of her initial character.