Definitely number 2 is sadder. Why? For 1) - I have lost someone
whom I love very deeply and she will not be able to be with the
person whom she love anymore. But sometimes we have to see the
situation. If she is suffering from her illness, then I will
defintely feel 'happy' that she is now relieved of her pain and
torture, no longer suffering. In this situation...I feel sad...but
also happy for her....think this is the purest form of love.
For 2) - I have lost someone whom I loved deeply but also lost
someone whom don't love me anymore. It's really painful in this
situation. However, I must also realise that if I really love her,
then I must let her go.....as she feels happier this way. It's
definitely painful...but it still must be done somehow.
