How do you cope with your ex-beau having a new bf/gf

jOhO SG

eheh thanx bro~~

it's been a while but sh[/i]it man it's still fresh as a daisy in my memory. Twisted Evil

the Bear SG

got a confession to make...

the "closure" i had with Her was not good.. and i made it so Neutral

it had to be... she said that she was with someone new...

so i told her, so, we will never meet again... even tho' every cell in me wanted to see her...

coz if she met me again, i would never be able to hide my feelings for her.. i never could... so, i said my goodbyes and farewell.. i will never see her again..

i will never ever want her or her guy to feel insecure that i'm around... so i grin and bear it.. i will never see her again.. if it is the price i have to pay for her and her new love to feel secure, for him to have complete trust in her, for her to be happy, then so be it...

how would one cope with an ex-beau whom i still love finding another? grin and bear it, hope she is happy and never step into her life into her light again..

she felt that i have not let go.. maybe it is so... i love her, and always will.. therefore i had to make her feel that i am totally out of her life and take myself out of her life completely.. and never ever hear from her again...

it hurts.. damn it hurts... but i can do no less..

she will never know this... nor will i ever want her to know this..

she now has her life, and i have mine...

that's how i cope...

i hope this rambling confession helps your healing...

peace be with you Smile

heartbroken07 SG

har har. I wished I did the same. I think she knows that I have not gotten over her. I did the same thing, well after much begging for her to come back, I eventually forced myself , yeah really dragged my myself through a field of thorns, and told her that I wish her and the new guy good luck, and I will never look back again.

I do agree with you... I don't wanna see her again, not so soon at least, I have not met her since we broke up. I think it would really hurt me to see her again, double the pain to see her with the other guy. think eventually I have to force myself to stop calling and emailing her too.

Really love her man... really do... wants her to be happy, even if it means stabbing myself with a knife.

::me-2-you:: SG

hmms..i noe how u feel…its tis feelin where u feel really really sad..as u see the person u love going out wif sumone else..i’ve had tis feeling b4..and it realli hurts…hmms…try to relax..and let things go on its own…go out wif ur frenz…and haf more outings…avoid going to places where u think u’ll see ur ex..

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Just make sure she is the one before you commit. In fact… you should not even commit before you commit.

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