Parka SG Here. The why-people-break-up bible http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=58147
damz83 SG Appearance of a third party…. can’t look beyond each others’ flaws… family oppose… So many reason, impossible to list them all!
AE86tofu SG Simple….One party is having a crush on that guy and the guy happens 2 like her…those kind of relationships NEVER last cos they are based on feelings….which is BS in my opnion….real raelstionships are not based on this factor alone
Prec|ous SG lost of interest, take each other for granted, lack of respect for each other, conflicts, different personality, different values and view, no chemistry, frequent quarrels, lack of understanding, flirtous, materlistic, commitment, etc…..
Parka SG 1. adultery 2. suspicion 3. being broke 4. loss of feelings--> this one is kinda hard to substantiate 5. new love(almost same as adultery but less the actions ) 6. rumours 7. lack of trust 8. jealousy 9. lack of communication 10. misunderstanding 11. differing dreams and aspiration 12. ex boyfriend/girlfriend 13. religion/racial differences 14. status difference
Ric_Ong SG My personal opinions, the most common causes are: 1) Loss of Feelings (a very common excuse by either party for breakups..) 2) 3rd Party
Yunhaier SG When fates end, all kinds of excuse could be used to execute the break-up. Break-up consist of internal and external factors. To explain this, would mean another topic altogether. Most of the time, it is a mixture of both. Cheers
Bear SG This is from my view points the most important factor is communication, and it's clear communication, not things that you make other people making inference. This will promote the trust, the understanding and reduce the number of fights and suspicion, because we get clear signals of the thoughts and intentions of each other. Will mean both people will need to open their ears and LISTEN (not hear), and both need to speak their views. You need to be able to accept opposing views too. the second most important factor is novelty. Both party should never spend their time solely for each other, but retain sometime for yourself and friends on a daily or even weekly basis. Do things that you would do alone, and learn new things to get more experience to share with your partner. It is to arouse the interest in your partner that you do not just have routine life with is all so predictable and lead to boredom of the relationship. This is why it's easy to for someone to come in between a r/s that's at least a year old, and especially a r/s that is even longer than a year.
Devil1976 SG They say "Knowing other each puts them together... Understanding someone pulls them apart..."
[email protected]_arms SG miscommunicationHear hear! Aye plus the LACK of it is also of prime concearn here. Communication is the most important. Feelings and emotions will always die out just as we age, we must recognise that fact, communication helps to slow down the losing of interest in both parties. Illustration, communication is the means to solving problems, without it, no problems can be solve. Analogy, to u ns people, if the radios of both fronts break down, nothing can be worked out.
yi xun SG getting sian/tired of the other partner/relationship... different interests/character/personality... lost of trust... no more feelings in each other... lesser topics to talk about and lack of "laughters" when together...
