Can still be friends?

last SG · 2003-11-27T00:01:07+00:00

Same here... my ex and I aree like buddies coz we know each other's habits too well but we don't have much to talk about other than asking about trivials in...

Ric_Ong SG

Dunno whether this question has been asked before.
Can someone still be friends even if they have broken up? I have heard many cases. However, I do wonder...don't the ex-lovers feel awkward, because how can still be firm friends when they were in love with each other before? (from love to friendship?)
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BrUtUs SG

very difficult but depends how the relationship ended…

idiotboi89 SG

it's possible lar. . depending on the individual ..

but i can't say anithing .. coz i no exp b4 ..

if given a choice i will rather have a friend then have a lover for a moment and lose a friend Razz

heartbroken07 SG

still trying... but seems very awkward... seems like I asked her one question she answered... I don't say anything, she won't say anything. and she ended up saying a lot of thank you's... very qe ji about everything....sigh...

huy SG

if me it hard for us to remain as fres. depends on whu is the one whu suggest the break up. if it my bf whu do that, then i don tik i will be fres with him. even see him in streets also will siam him..

Yunhaier SG

50% depends on the personality of both parties
50% depends on reason why it ended.

Either one of the factor fails - friendship is impossible.

Cheers

aHGer^83 SG

Rolling Eyes Neutral

idiotboi89 SG

welll u said it was a 50 / 50 chance, why when 1 fail Friendship is impossible ? . Razz Very Happy Razz

u still have the other 50 % u know =X

well even it's a 1 percent .. u still have a chance .. a veri slim 1 . =)

aHGer^83 SG

sometimes even if both parties wanna remains as frens...there's oways another factor dat y dey din manage to stay as frens de mah... Rolling Eyes

GHoST_18 SG

still working on it...

Sad Sad Sad

Leonhart_82 SG

Depends on how it ended and whether the girl still wants to be friends…chances are 50-50%

WrX_STi SG

depends on situation lor.. if u are sporting enuff when meet each other on the streets , juz say a hello and i suppose ur opp will do the same.. my ex gf thoug hbreakup le, saw each other outside or in sch still will talk abit and catch up with each other lor..

but there are some which i nv talk or wad eva lor..

i suppose its depend on oneself..

juz be sporting.. Wink

oceanic SG

sure can… it may be hard though.. depend on both parties too

Yunhaier SG

Oh yeah I know what you are driving at, but in percentage theory of love, nothing can be full score, therefore neither can it be zero. therefore the highest is only 49%. (There is no such thing as the world best personality compatiability nor the best form of a mutual end of a relationship)

Cheers

Yunhaier SG

This another factor often related/interlink or has unbreakable bonds with the conclusion of the relationship.

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Ric_Ong SG

True lor...I have encountered it...still friends..but very polite and it's very unnatural...

But guess I rather be friends than lose her forever lor....Maybe if u find another companion...u may then really become 'real friends' with her lor...

Ric_Ong SG

What if your bf was the one who suggested but still want to be friends with u? Will u still siam him in streets? Haizz....think if can still be friends after broken relationship, it is already very fortunate liao. Think it depends on situations..and reasons why break. If one party is a [email protected]#, then no use being friends lor.

AaLviNn SG

if only its THAT easy to see him/her on the streets again..

aHGer^83 SG

even if the break up is not cos of dat factor, the reason dat dey cant be remain as frens, is often dat stupid reason....

Yunhaier SG

Love events and issues, often, so close knitted, its kinda difficult to differentiate them anymore.
Eh~ Don't think too much lerz you.

Cheers