i am weird

parkour SG

today, my gf confessed she had lesbian sex while in a all girls sec sch, she told me they were juz curious at the time and shes did not have lesbian tendicies, though i believe her,somehow i feel betrayed and i wanna wack the butch who was with her at that time.

ever had a lesbian gf b4? =( it sucks to know ur gf got screwed by a butch b4

doghouse837 SG

aiya
take it easy lah
its the past liao mah
dont think so much
think about the bright future
and did u read sunday newpaper??
hope u did, cause after u read liao, guess u might feel better loh
cause not only your gf is have that kind of problem loh
so take it easy loh

Yunhaier SG

Technically, she didn't get screwed as you vulgarly put it. Come and think of this, you rather she plays around with females or males?

It part of growing up (for some and its not uncommon at all), in a girl's school. Think about it this way: she truthfully reveal this to you like a girlfriend when in fact, she can keep this from you her whole life. Rolling Eyes

Don't you think that her trust in you is quite strong? So are you going to respect her past and use acceptance and love her the way she is? Or are you going to stir up her past and probably create a scene and send your relationship straight flying into declining stage?

Cheers

wuming78 SG

ever watched the show “chasing amy”?

Xiao Long Nu SG

time is the cure

Parka SG

Nice show.

Erm, but in the end, the guy and gal didn't end up together.

Parka SG

And I would say that knowledge is a barrier now.

[email protected] SG

honestly... i dun think i would mind, 'cause lesbians are quite cool...
I know, cause i am friends with quite a bit of them...
haha anyway, she not having les "sex" now so why bother? the thing is she is honest enough to let you know about her past, and shes being faithful to you now. Don't dwell on the negetive man, dwell on the positive!

raraninja SG

hey I dun think its nice to tok abt wat your gf has told u in private although we dun know who u are... u have to learn to respect her..dun think she will be too impressed with you putting this up for everyone to know...

shaunlaw SG

Tt was in the past le. She loves u and respects u. Tts y she feel tt she shld let u noe this. She trusts u not to make a big fuss out of it. And seems like u are doing the opposite.

If u really love her, accept her for who she is. Y mind her past when the future of hte 2 of u is more impt? Everyone has a past and i think u shldnt feel betrayed.

sgboy2004 SG

it's over liao...get on with life...and love her deep deep... Mr. Green

FireIce SG

lesbian sex?
hmm.....wat can they do?
the most fingering nia mah........

it's the past liao......shd not let it bother u too much....

now u can show her wat is REAL SEX Wink

parkour SG

i dint post this to embarrass her or anything, juz got a shock when i heard it coz i never knew she was a lesbian before…dosent even look like one. Her young sweet innocence got taken away by a butch , felt kinda sad. Felt that a guy should be doing that, ... oh well dosent matter!!!! still love her!!!!

[email protected] SG

dunno… seems more like u’re struggling to come to terms with her past. I know of a friend who was in a similar situation, only he got dumped by his gf when she decided to go les. Now I think thats a fate worst than your is it not? Yet here you are lamenting but a past fragment of her life, as unaffecting of her faithfulness to you as the brillance of the stars affect the blind. Shame! If thee loves the damsel he so claims so, then let not be any doubts about her faith towards thee.

shandower SG

Technically, your girlfriend did not have sex with her partner. So why beat your brains out on the floor over this?

Eiizumi SG

At least she didn't say, "Although I'm with you I like girsl, I'm still lesbian."

That's the worst situation you can get.

Judas Iscariot SG

Tell her to intro that butch to you sometime, then you guys can have a threesome!

[email protected]_arms SG

So why does that make you weird?