bullshit
SEX doesnt make u love a person more. it makes u simply ENJOY being
with the person.
dun be conned into the rhetoric guys use that sex brings a couple
closer since... if he respects you and loves u dearly... he will
wait for ur wedding night to totally consummate the marriage
my 2 cents
that's what i would do... 
meanwhile, continue 'playing' with thyself. 