really dont know what shall i do about this..... Last
thursday night, i sms my gf n told her to stay away from the guy
because that guy r trying to take advantage of her but she insist
that they r just playing. but instead, she told me that we should
cool down for 3 days. ok i wait.... monday, when i met her i tried
to explain to her but she was trying to ignore n keep advoiding me.
then on the same day i told her i will send her home, she agreed,
but she left without telling me. on that night she told me she will
give me a chance to prove i will return to my normal self in 3
days. i promised her. but now the problems is will she really give
me a chance? also today when i tried to sit next to her she also
advoid me by changing place. when 1 of my friend ask "if i sit next
to u will u change place?" she replied "no" that really hurt me.
that time i think my life not worth living
for.......
Sounds a lot like what I experience everyday at school, funny how I
am not even this girls' friend yet along "boy-friend" and I get
shunned.
Anyway, what guy are you talking about? Is it a friend of hers?
Part of being in a romance involves trust, just because you are her
boyfriend does not mean you can control who she meets. It sounds
like you get worked up easily, if she has to ask you for a
cool-down period.
My point and advice: simple, ignore her for now, even if this
friend of hers (this guy) is the devil, let her see that for
herself, watch her come on in her own. Don't force anyone (even
your gf) over what kind of people they can meet. Sometimes, people
need to wait for damage to be done, even though warnings have been
given countless times.
