at a Lost: does sex always comes in love?

iori8888 SG

Sad The best way is a painful way... but it's 100% this kind of things will not happen anymore after you do it... it's your choice to do it or not so don't regret after you do it...
Just Chop It Off! Laughing

Sling SG

Girls can never get pregnant during or 1 week after their period, I always do it with my gf right after her period without protection and even ejaculate inside but nothing has ever happened, but to be safer, use condoms. Sometimes sex just happens whether you like it or not….....it’s like an instinct.

jOhO SG

hmm no sound from her…?

ReD_RuBy SG

Generally i feel that love sort of does come with sex. It just seems very natural. Maybe u feel that the more u control the more the two of you wants it even more. It happens when u try to avoid it too much. just talk it out with your bf. if u feel that you are not ready and won't be able to bear the consequence than reject with a firm NO. U won't want to hurt your parents and put them into mistrust for u.
Guys r not so sensitive as gers, so try to bear with them. they want their pride, that's y they put up a very strong front. actually they can be just a little hai zi qi.they get jealous easily only coz they care for u just like u will cry only for the man u love. they do like attention as much as us gers too just that they feel that they will appear weak and feminine, u know they have an image to keep up. Spare them some thought too, they are just as emotional just that they don't show it
Wink Don't you guys agree?

peacely SG

you are right that its almost quite impossible to supress feelings for each other for sex. and its extremely difficult to control the kind of urge when its out of control.
To me , this is jus like the addiction for smoking. Its very tough to quit it esp when u are always hanging ard with smokers.
Everytime when i cant control my feelings anymore and i give in to it , i got this kind of extremely GUILTH and SINFUL feeling. It became worse when i became paranoid abt it and start to think of its effects. To me , its jus like a gamble. and its not fun.
my bf cant even help me much when it happens , there is really nothing he can do .
i am jus stuck in the middle of 2 things which are just as important and its very terrible.

its quite useless to talk and discuss abt all these here coz this kind of things has got no real solution to it . but at least, i feel consoled when i knoe there are ppl out there who are willing to hear me out and provide consulation. Laughing

ReD_RuBy SG

welcome anytime...... it's always good to be able to talk things out you'll feel better.........

Devil1976 SG

Cool

[email protected]_arms SG

theres something i just dun understand abt guys. i really feel that they dunno how to console their gf and make them feel better. we ended up quarreling abt this matter. sometimes, i really feel like breaking off with him so that i wun experience this kind of mental torture. :

It is hard to resist the pleasures of the flesh, you'd better tell him to learn how to use a condom. Or else you may end up "being the disgrace" to your traditional family.

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