ok this is not a problem or something, just something i
wanna say.
since i like photography and now into classical music, i think i
would prefer someone who is into either 1 of these also. i mean
there would be common topics,activities. so i would prefer meeting
someone at a concert or get to know ppl thru friends at such
places, concerts or photo shoot-outs etc.
I only understood this section of your post, the rest of it I could
not make out what you were saying. But anyway. Yes I agree, it is
so with people nowadays, its not opposites that attract, its
positives. Besides just hobbies, you definitely also want to find
someone who is of the same race/culture/nationality/religion as you
are. As for how to meet people, yes you do so via similar
activities, if you can find the time for such things.