I presume both you and her are an item, just after her 5 years
r/s/
I strongly think you should reconsider the r/s you are having with
her as she's definately not ready to commit wholly onto this
r/s.
You trying to change her, is something which she would appreciate,
but not what she would think of doing presently.
Chillout friend....be a support. Not converter.