Yunhaier SG You were clubbing at the local bar. There was some bash going on and the the bar was very happening and wild. Left check. A hot chick/hunk and she/he seemed interested in you as well. *Fast forwarded* - you got him/her to dance with you. Suddenly from the corner of your eyes, you saw this familiar face while dancing. Determined to have a closer and more accurate picture in the dark, you moved towards him/her. You discover it was your good friend's gf/bf and the problem is that the person hugging her is not your good friend. When she saw you, she was horrified and came up to you. 'Please do not tell *input name* about this.' What would you do? *** A) Tell your good friend B) Keep mum C) Others *** A) 1 - (14.2%) B) 2 - (28.5%) C) 4 - (57.1%) Total polled (7): kohanson, Imperfect, Devil1976, FireIce, www, the Bear, yi xun ***
the Bear SG yun, you mean "conscience"? it's their problem... not mine to meddle... unless invited, i have no right to interfere with their relationship no matter how bad it is.. alas....
fugue SG Then what has my decision got to do with the person I just met and was dancing now with me? Explain...
Imperfect SG C Will try to find out what's happening and give her the benefit of doubt of what she says... will tell her not to do it again and keep quiet unless things don't seems right for my best friend and her...
{WuMing}78 SG keep quiet if she continue to be a two timer, expose her me not in very good mood now.........
ntu slacker SG well it wholly depends on the guy/galfrend concerned well if they only had brief contact... and didnt have that inimate contact which makes it less obvious that they have been at it for sum time perhaps i'll keep mum... otherwise my final verdict would be a well i'll try to make it nicer sounding to the other party... because then only he/she will know there is a prob sumwhere... well thats life. good options are sumtimes unpopular. its the lesser of the two evils... and i feel as a best friend like u said... its my duty to check his/her blindspots but if its just a frend i just heck care simply because i do not know him well enuff to comment?
winky SG i'll definitely tell my friend about it. its my friend that's concerned here. i don't want my friend to get hurt. she has a right to know such a thing, in my opinion. what kind of friend will i be if i help her bf instead of her? she may not like to hear it, but, its vital for her to know. if they really can make it (to marriage and stuff) they need to communicate very well (at least talk to each other why such a thing happened? or was it a moment of folly? etc... whether my friend will forgive him or not, thats another question) no matter what, i'll stand on my friend's side. so if the matter is reversed, my friend is the one fooling around, i'll stand by her. to me, its friend against conscious....
ntu slacker SG if its my good friend fooling around i'll knock some sense into him well i mean a relationship is not something to be taken lightly if its just a friend... i doubt very much i would give it a second thought beside having a lower opinion of him
Devil1976 SG Probably ‘B’... I’ll keep mum and not reply her. I probably won’t tell my friend neither. Anyway, hugging is quite common nowadays. It can mean more, maybe not? A moment of foolishness? Maybe not? Unless I learn that she’s just making use of my good friend and not sincere to him, otherwise I’ll probably just keep mum about it.
FireIce SG tell! i can't stand unfaithfulness even if i know my fren is going cry buckets and threaten suicide i still will tell.....and knock some sense in him/her
www SG C + A "come over to my place tonight and i promise not to tell my good friend." after that, then tell my friend.
the Bear SG yee? i thought i said already, i’ll do nothing.. say nothing either.. their business.. until i’m asked, i have no right to say anything
Yunhaier SG Oh yesh learn from me to make yun tun noodle. The texture of noodle, the soup, the meat all that, very difficult to teach. You better learn hard.
