Hw u deal wif this?

lv_gal SG

hw u response back if ur ex fall in love on u again after breaking up for a few yrs.. during the break off period, ur ex had been a good friend of urs who share problems wif u and will always there for u when u need him/she...

so wat will u do to handle this situation tat wont hurt ur ex but can prolong the friendship with ur ex?

X-men SG

One question, do you still have the same feelings for your ex?

Another question, why the initial break up?

lv_gal SG

1st qns>>> NOPE.. i treat him as veri veri veri gdd friend of mine. someone i can shower him my care n concern but definitely not my love cos i'm attached liao.

2nd>>>>>> he is my 1st bf. tat time i'm 14yrs old. maybe cos we r young or so-call puppy love... moreover, 1st love always dun last.....

Devil1976 SG

Let him UNDERSTAND that you TREASURE this FRIENDSHIP ALOT...?

whiteillum SG

i guess all guys have to told when to back off
i suggest tat u let him know abt how u feel
it is important to communicate, even between friends
this small step can work towards saving ur friendship

Jaws SG

u seems like my ex gf.

X-men SG

Now to answer your question....

I think you have to make know to your ex lor, don't wait till yr ex gets the wrong idea then it will hurt him more...

better draw the line clearly lor...

That's what I think lah.. the rest is still up to u

the Bear SG

he may love you, but you don't love him...

it takes 2 for a relationship to work....

that's the long and short of it

sh|nY_BoY SG

yeah...takes 2 to move on..

dumbdumb! SG

sob sob Crying or Very sad

Xiao Long Nu SG

Please ask yourself if you still got feelings to him? What do u treat him as???

then u go think and make a decision ,,THank you.

Striker83 SG

Xiao Long Nu, why u so ji(1) dong(4) Question

Risky SG

wun hurt yr ex but prolong the friendship... u must be joking...
u have to be harsh to him... actually in my opinion....u shouldn't even give him a chance to let him think that he's still got a chance to chase you back
this means not keeping contact with him so often..
if u continue keeping in contact with him, no matter what u say he'll still think that he's got that teenie weenie bit of chance to get u back..

what i think you should do is u should say it right to his face that u will never be with him again... crush all his hopes

u may not like the idea... but thats the way life is man...

gals tend to think that they could continue keepin in contact with their ex and treat them as a good fren assuming that the guy would just want to be friends with her till dday...

as many people say.. dun assume