Originally posted by Yunhaier:
I thank you for your compliment - Kinda sweet to hear such thingy
occasionally. 
Ok, expressing huh? Before you go about expressing, lets understand
what is your intentions and motives you desire inwardly. If you do
not wish to get involve in their relationship and purely desire to
express yourself just because you wish to let her know (no
expectation/hope/whatsoever) - then go ahead and declare. 
No desire, therefore no disappointment. It also
meant that you wouldn't get rejected because in the first place,
you wouldn't want initiate to further relationship as well.
However, if you thought through and felt that you wish to give it a
shot, despite the presence of her boyfriend - do not reveal your
feelings, yet. (This would probably call for another topic).
Actually, most friendship can remain - it depends very much
basically on [b]how you go about expressing your feelings.
Not the content and idea itself, rather the method of
communication. I cannot tell you what's workable or negative
expression because everyone has their own unique way of doing
things and I wouldn't be there to watch through your love
declaration too.
P.S: There is a risk to everything; be it whether to tell or to
seal your lips. You can only minimise it this risk and take
calulated decisions. And to minimize this risk is to understand
what do you really want.
Cheers [/b]
Yunhaier
Thanks again for your reply. Well, like you have quoted saying that
i should be clear of what my intentions are by telling her. Well,
as she already had a BF, my intention of course is to just tell her
how i feel for her and maybe let her remember me.
Haha....and i had already told her how i feel for her last night
and she don't really buy it at first until i told her that i'm
serious about i had just said and i just wanted her to know how i
feel and hope it will not stained our friendship Lucky her response
is not negative, in the sense that she still chat and joke with me
as though nothing had happened.
I don't know if this kind of reaction is good or not but now i am
curious about how she really felt after she know my feeling for
her.Haha...I guess i will never find out unless she is willing to
tell me on the own. But i guess i will leave this to time and our
fate to decide.......
BrenBren
