totally same with me. u know, wad i did was i stopped looking at
her stuff, everything about her, for 2 days. just go out town,
though its difficult cos of all the memories. but just be out, mix
with the crowd, do something u like, be with ur colleagues or
frens. or u can find someone willing to lend u his/her listening
her to. it helps alot to say out everything u keep inside ur
heart.
diff people take diff time to recover from their r/s, depending on
how deep the love the couple had for each other. but got to know
that unless she comes back bcos she still loves u, the situation
won't change. don't set urself a time limit to be sad, sorrowful,
angry, empty..... give urself time, take things slowly. eventually
u'll crawl out. i'm already 1/2way there after a 3yr r/s. so i
believe u can do it as well. take good care.
i don't believe in God, but this 1 saying that kept me going: "God
made things this way, because he may have something
better for u in the future." everyone has flaws,
so maybe u can take this opportunity to reflect on ur flaws, wad
went wrong in ur r/s, and change for the better, so the next girl
who walks into ur life, she will be a very lucky girl.
