Originally posted by {WuMing}78:
[b]from SgForums\bar by {WuMing78
Yup, it's me. Post this topic cause of what I heard in the radio. I
posed a similar topic in Sgforums\bar to hear the horny version
. Here, I would
like to see a more educative version.
So younger folks, what's your perception ?[/b]
The fundamental use
of Sex is nature's way of propagating and sex of a love
relationship, both male and female, function differently.
Guys are able to separate and divide Love and Sex as a different
entity while woman very often equate them together. This is
because, by nature, man's job is to sow his seeds everywhere while
a woman's task is more towards nurturing. 
Here's something interesting to take note:
When a hot chick (Great figure, angelic looks, etc), walks down the
street packed with men by its side asked each of them for sex -
almost everyone would agree.
You ask a hunk (Great face and power figure), to do the same thing
in a street packed with woman, most of them would reject him.
Why?
Woman are more cautious towards the notion of sex because they have
more investment and nature made it in such a way that they would
want the perfect partner (preception/biological cum psychological
reasons) to mate with them to produce the best next-generation.
Together with the fact that they are often unable to separate Sex
and Love - this explains the need for love before sex can follow.
In a marriage/relationship, sex can be used to build a
relationship. In Asian context, it is still generally considered a
taboo before marriage, though things are gradually changing now
because of media and pornographic materials.
The nature initial
use of sex has become commercialised and degrading.
There are three form of sex and exist in a sexual love
relationship.
I) Maintainace Sex - Maintainace sex is what you
called quickie. Generally short lasting and its to satified the
biological urge in parties. The poorest form of the three -
literally means having sex.
II) Good Sex - Many couple's sesson falls under
this category. Satisfying and last a reasonable amount of time.
Effort are placed to make sure parties are enjoying and literally
means making love.
III) Great Sex - These are occasions when couples
go tour together or on special days where spiritually they are feel
united and stress-free. When they make out - it is the most
fulfilling and pleasurable among the three. 
Whether couples should or not have sex in a prior-marriage case
depends on the both individual's mentalilty and what both people
are looking for. However guys, do think for the girls and no matter
what you people do, use protection.
Ideally, sex in a love relationship should only take place when
both parties are matured emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Those age 12 - 16 years old kind - please avoid.
Quote of the day: Before I can learn to protect you from other
guys, I must learn to protect you from myself. (Self discipline and
inner strength is displayed when guys abstain sex with their gf
until marriage. Its pretty rare these days, but it gives good
foundation to your marriage. As again, both parties must share this
preception together - love is about looking in the same direction
isn't it?) 
Cheers