Make things short and sweet... sometimes people NEVER appreciate
the things they have until they lost it. Many people in here
belongs to the category of 'Been there, Done that'.
Off hand from your post, I can't tell exactly the reason for
flaring over small issues were becoz you indeed wanted to test
her.. but what I can tell you is temper is self contained and
controlled. Anger is one word
short of Danger. if you realise
More likely you're unable to contain your anger with her not becoz
you wanna test her, it's more of you knowing she'll be there for
you, hence subconsciously you're trying to push the limit. It's the
case of taking her for granted.
Well, every action results in equal and opposite reaction. The
opposite reaction is that her bubble burst, she no longer wants to
be treated the way you did to her previously hence the break
up.
If you think by showering her with gifts can make her return to
you, you're giving her 'assurance' through the gifts, wanting to
buy some form of love back via this method, then I think chances
are sooner or later she'll treat you as a 'carrot head'. Of coz
nothing is absolute. You mentioned you know she's not the sort to
make use of you to buy gifts, still I won't suggest you take
chances. Personally speaking, probably your ex is not the sort to
do that, but always remember that another form of influence exists
in friends. What if her close friend/buddy suggested to her on
having sweet revenge.. and one of that will mean asking you to buy
things for her, knowing that now both you and her takes on opposite
roles compared to that before the breakoff?
If you indeed want to win her back, it'll be through sincerity,
patience and hard work.. not merely gifts. You don't own a mountain
full of gold where you can send miners to exvacate the gold
everytime you run out of money..
I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you...
Cheerz..
