how to go back to old times?

alphanumeric SG

recentl, i had a series of major quarrels with my girlfren of 8mths… we both want to patch back now but the feeling is no longer the ame anymore… she says she is very hurt by my behaviour… what can i do to mend her broken heart?

the Bear SG

i'm sorry to hear that...

slowly, slowly.... it takes time...

that being said, i wonder why is it that "she's very hurt" is on ladies' minds... i have rarely heard them even think about "how much have i hurt him"?

it's as if men have no feelings to be hurt, yet it is demanded that they have "feelings" for the girl they love...

in many ways, men have to be battleship steel...

so alphanumeric dude, be battleship steel for her.. that is, be strong for her if you love her... after all, we're just men Neutral

Devil1976 SG

Work out the things that she find hurting about you... Find ways to overcome or change the situation... Ask her to give you some time....

And yes... Only make the above proposal if you're confident enough to make a change to the situation (not simply because you WISH to...) and you're SINCERE enough....

Yunhaier SG

Sad to say - there is no such thing as going back to the old times. Check out the movies and dramas you seen on TV and cinema - when did the actress/actor ever return back to the same good/bad old times? Rolling Eyes

Times change, people change, money talk. People grow up and people gain new experience, preception and attitude towards certain issues.

You can only wish for future days to be better than the current ones - provided if she is willing to give you a chance. It's not easy trying to change and improve a character flaw to suit to your partner, but she has to allow you that chance. If not, no matter how good your drawing, its worth is only 56 cents (in other words useless). Rolling Eyes

Probably if you can post what is the actual thing that took place, then maybe people around could help to analysis for you?

P.S: Bad behavior? Are you an Aries or Scorpio?

Cheers