ZChen SG how would you feel if u find out? wat would you do? would you disown ur best fren? and stop him/her from seeing ur bf/gf again? or let things take its way??
the Bear SG if he's your friend, a true friend, he'll know to lay off, suck it up, and let you BOTH be... without both of you any the wiser.. in other words, you would never ever know
boy in blues SG sad fact hard to change..just work harder loh..good girls always attract attention mah..that friend's just a number in the army of rivals..i won't wanna lose either galfren or gdfren.
Hiroyuki Takei SG your friend has his freedom to like anyone.... just let things take its way......if your bf/gf really like you alot....nothing can change him/her as for your friend...don't always bring him along when you and ur gf are dating loh...don't need disown....don't let matters of heart ruin friendship
Marmalade Boy SG Well, let nature take it own course. If your girlfriend leaves you that means that she doesn’t truly love you. If that happens, cheer up mate… you will find someone better.
AzRaeL SG there's a difference between liking and making a move. girlfriends come and go but best friends stick around
^cereal^ SG This is a cruel and vicious world I supposed. The best man wins and the fittest survive. Then again if your gf/bf is the sort who 'jumps ship' (Sorry for making it so harsh) then I supposed he/she can't really give you the assurance/security he/she wont do it for someone else (who can be your friend or just someone he/she chances upon). If so, dont you think this person is someone you'll be better off without? Likewise for your friend, I believe in this ethic code (Jiang Hu Dao Yi) between guys/gals that 'Never to touch my friend's gal/guy'. Things are pretty simple actually. Don't read too much into it... I can like someone but as long as I don't take any action, it remains as a 'liking'.
digicharat SG there are bound to be b astards like them to make this a world. if he didn't know she was your gf, then i won't blame him. but when he already knows it, i will tell him to f uc k off and know when to stop. if he is my best friend, he will know that he have to back out of it when he found out that she was my gf.
browniebaobao SG Will ask my bf what he thinks...If he likes my buddy, I will back out lor..I dun want a man who dun love me. I will still be very good with my buddy lo..But in reality, I'm sure my buddy and I will not fall for the same person..haha..If it happens one day, and the man is interested in my buddy, I'm pretty sure both of us will not want him.
boy in blues SG you like her..that's a fact..he likes her..that's a fact too..he doesn't owe you anything to back off like that..just do your best and don't worry about the rest..don't let jealousy ruin your relationship..if your girlfriend is attractive..he's probably not your 1st competitor and sure as heck won't be your last..don't focus too much special attention on him..expend your energies improving your own chances instead.
Devil1976 SG If they truly love each other then I probably won't stop them? If he's only interested in her and no actions taken, I don't think I'll mind too...? Just remember... Matters of the heart, doesn't neccessarily follow logics...
Ecxentrique SG My first thought will be: Who does my bf/gf really like? Or how he/she feel towards the other person? If your partner is more committed towards u then its no problem at all. But if he/she is shaken, then mayb its fair to just let him or her decide since there is nothing u can do to change the fact that there is this 3rd party. As a guy, I wont really fall out with my best frend if they both really got together.. but then again, things between the 3 of us will not really be as comforting as b4.... maybe let things take its course..
Eiizumi SG Let nature takes its course. If you and your girl/boyfriend truly loves each other, you should stick together forever. Your friend will definitely be unable to interfere. If your friend trys to be funny, you have to be gentleman/lady enough to accept the challenge. After all, if your girl/guy loves you, nothing will break you both apart. If break does happens... Your girl/guy doesn't love you, she shouldn't be loved, find a girl/guy who loves you and you can love... If all fails, your girl/boyfriend betrays you or your best friend betrays you, go Beach Road SingArms shop, buy Swiss Army knife. What to do? You can use the Swiss knife's cork screw to pop the champange (Recommended) or kill yourself or kill them. (But I can ensure you killing anyone or yourself wouldn't change anything.)
ZChen SG dun worry, i'm not going to kill my fren or wat..... i will make things clear to him... if he wants a challenge, he will get it loh...